"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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ApC23

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...that your quiet/shy. started my new job today, i was introduced to everyone, i said hi and all that ****. i work mostly with older people, everytime they would introduce me it would go like " hey this is Apc23, hes shy/quiet haha," "im sure in a few weeks he'll open up." i duno, i dont feel shy, if i needed help i asked, i guess i need to be more social?..its so annoying. i dont really have a question, this just bothers me. it happened at the interview too.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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SELF-MASTERY

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That shouldn't bother you....... Plus quiety sneaky people get away with more dirt......
 

Cowhead418

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For some reason, in today's society, people who are introverted are looked down upon and seen as 'shy losers.' I, like you, am told that often. I just don't see the point in talking up everyone I see about the same old stuff every day.
 
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