...that your quiet/shy. started my new job today, i was introduced to everyone, i said hi and all that ****. i work mostly with older people, everytime they would introduce me it would go like " hey this is Apc23, hes shy/quiet haha," "im sure in a few weeks he'll open up." i duno, i dont feel shy, if i needed help i asked, i guess i need to be more social?..its so annoying. i dont really have a question, this just bothers me. it happened at the interview too.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
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