I fvcking hate it. What can I do about it? The people in my class are constantly making fun of me behind my back. However, they don´t have the balls to say it in my face because they know I would verbally destroy them. When I ask them why they are talking behind my back they always deny it. I´m sick of this sh!t. How can you regain respect?
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
People talking behind your back!
- Thread starter ChrizZ
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
THE_ADDMAN
Master Don Juan
when you hear something being said about you, turn around and say "what was that?"
if they say "nothing", smirk and say "I thought so"
if they say "nothing", smirk and say "I thought so"
WC2
Master Don Juan
Don't sweat it. Those who act like cowards will be cowards. Those who act like men, will be men. What goes around comes around. While your peers may not see this, take it from someone who's been through high school. When you get a little bit older, people will start to realize who's going somewhere and who isn't
comic_relief
Master Don Juan
Dude, get used to it. Your in high school. Just do your own sh!t.
People made fun of my anger problems, monotone voice, and many other things.
Once you start to succeed, they shut the hell up.
comic_relief
People made fun of my anger problems, monotone voice, and many other things.
Once you start to succeed, they shut the hell up.
comic_relief
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
persiangino
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If you are good looking, wear nice clothes, talk to a lot of girls etc. you will attract alot of haters and jealousy. Consequently, this will in turn manifest itself through people talking behind your back and saying random stupid **** in your face. THE KEY IS NOT TO LOOK LIKE YOU CARE OR THAT YOU ARE PHASED IN ANY SHAPE OR FORM. Indifference is the key my friend. 
I got some frizzy hair, weigh 117 lbs at 5'11, have bags under my eyes, have hyperhidrosis, and have worst of all the highest most annoying voice ever, but I don't get made fun of that often. I get the occasional "When are you going to gain weight?" "Why are your hands so sweaty?" "Why do you talk so funny?" But dude, I demand respect for such a little guy. I stare down people that **** with me. Don't laugh, don't pout. Just stare at them, don't crack a smile. I've done it plenty of times, and people stop after that. Otherwise, **** them back up. Be good friends to those that are nice to you, and don't take **** from those that aren't people that you like or are mean.
funny no one talks behind my back. <- that statement may or may not be true but in MY reality no one is talking behind my back because its hang ups like that, that will **** you over. is someoen actually talking behind my back? i dont know, i dont care. it doesnt benifit me, so it doesnt exist
Precursor
Don Juan
While they are wasting time hating you, you are wisely having fun doing your own thing
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
PeterNorthisawesome
Banned
Why do you hate it? it probably means they're jealous of something and want to feel better by trying to bring you down to their level. Or it could mean you smell funny or have somethin wrong with you in which case you should ask someone and find out so you can fix it ASAP. After fixing everything and those lozers are still "talkin behind your back" just put your FOOT DOWN and kick some ass! :box:ChrizZ said:
Demo
Don Juan
DUDE!! Seriously its highschool the breeding ground for ignorance stubborness and stupidity amongst children, **** thats life.
However i do know what its like to have that stuff going on, it happend to me.
*ponders*
*ponders some more*
Ask yourself this.
Does it really matter what these people say? Like really does it have a direct impact on your social life bar the occasional feeling that you wanna kick there ass.
However i do know what its like to have that stuff going on, it happend to me.
*ponders*
*ponders some more*
Ask yourself this.
Does it really matter what these people say? Like really does it have a direct impact on your social life bar the occasional feeling that you wanna kick there ass.
shydude
Master Don Juan
Deep voice? is it a kindergarden u live in? If not then u gotta be a man and actually fvuk some of the looser. NO offense but serously, they probably retarted, so you gotts solve this problem before it gets worse. Leaving this shethole unsolved might lead to bigger problems. So when they make fun, raise you voice, and say sometin as loud as you can "YO, you got problems with my voise? if ya then say it to my face and see what happens" They will feel so emberessed they will probably stay mute for their liife. You are the man, and you live how u wanna live.