I fvcking hate it. What can I do about it? The people in my class are constantly making fun of me behind my back. However, they don´t have the balls to say it in my face because they know I would verbally destroy them. When I ask them why they are talking behind my back they always deny it. I´m sick of this sh!t. How can you regain respect?
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
People talking behind your back!
- Thread starter ChrizZ
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
THE_ADDMAN
Master Don Juan
when you hear something being said about you, turn around and say "what was that?"
if they say "nothing", smirk and say "I thought so"
if they say "nothing", smirk and say "I thought so"
WC2
Master Don Juan
Don't sweat it. Those who act like cowards will be cowards. Those who act like men, will be men. What goes around comes around. While your peers may not see this, take it from someone who's been through high school. When you get a little bit older, people will start to realize who's going somewhere and who isn't
comic_relief
Master Don Juan
Dude, get used to it. Your in high school. Just do your own sh!t.
People made fun of my anger problems, monotone voice, and many other things.
Once you start to succeed, they shut the hell up.
comic_relief
People made fun of my anger problems, monotone voice, and many other things.
Once you start to succeed, they shut the hell up.
comic_relief
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
persiangino
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If you are good looking, wear nice clothes, talk to a lot of girls etc. you will attract alot of haters and jealousy. Consequently, this will in turn manifest itself through people talking behind your back and saying random stupid **** in your face. THE KEY IS NOT TO LOOK LIKE YOU CARE OR THAT YOU ARE PHASED IN ANY SHAPE OR FORM. Indifference is the key my friend. 
I got some frizzy hair, weigh 117 lbs at 5'11, have bags under my eyes, have hyperhidrosis, and have worst of all the highest most annoying voice ever, but I don't get made fun of that often. I get the occasional "When are you going to gain weight?" "Why are your hands so sweaty?" "Why do you talk so funny?" But dude, I demand respect for such a little guy. I stare down people that **** with me. Don't laugh, don't pout. Just stare at them, don't crack a smile. I've done it plenty of times, and people stop after that. Otherwise, **** them back up. Be good friends to those that are nice to you, and don't take **** from those that aren't people that you like or are mean.
funny no one talks behind my back. <- that statement may or may not be true but in MY reality no one is talking behind my back because its hang ups like that, that will **** you over. is someoen actually talking behind my back? i dont know, i dont care. it doesnt benifit me, so it doesnt exist
Precursor
Don Juan
While they are wasting time hating you, you are wisely having fun doing your own thing
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
PeterNorthisawesome
Banned
Why do you hate it? it probably means they're jealous of something and want to feel better by trying to bring you down to their level. Or it could mean you smell funny or have somethin wrong with you in which case you should ask someone and find out so you can fix it ASAP. After fixing everything and those lozers are still "talkin behind your back" just put your FOOT DOWN and kick some ass! :box:ChrizZ said:
Demo
Don Juan
DUDE!! Seriously its highschool the breeding ground for ignorance stubborness and stupidity amongst children, **** thats life.
However i do know what its like to have that stuff going on, it happend to me.
*ponders*
*ponders some more*
Ask yourself this.
Does it really matter what these people say? Like really does it have a direct impact on your social life bar the occasional feeling that you wanna kick there ass.
However i do know what its like to have that stuff going on, it happend to me.
*ponders*
*ponders some more*
Ask yourself this.
Does it really matter what these people say? Like really does it have a direct impact on your social life bar the occasional feeling that you wanna kick there ass.
shydude
Master Don Juan
Deep voice? is it a kindergarden u live in? If not then u gotta be a man and actually fvuk some of the looser. NO offense but serously, they probably retarted, so you gotts solve this problem before it gets worse. Leaving this shethole unsolved might lead to bigger problems. So when they make fun, raise you voice, and say sometin as loud as you can "YO, you got problems with my voise? if ya then say it to my face and see what happens" They will feel so emberessed they will probably stay mute for their liife. You are the man, and you live how u wanna live.