"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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People on the street in major cities that try to sell you something

itouchyou

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If you live in a major city like NYC you will encounter the occasional guy on the street trying to get you to take a survey, sell you something, or otherwise stop you while you're trying to get somewhere.

For whatever reason the past few weeks I've been stopped by a few black guys on the subway, on the street, etc. I never stop, and for good reason.. last time I was literally 20 seconds away from missing the train.

What amuses me is that they will always try to get my attention by complimenting my appearance. Is this a sales tactic that they use, or are they really saying out loud what most people perceive us as? I've heard handsome, stud, nice haircut, well dressed, good looking, nice shoes.. and I'm just thinking to myself "lmao come on I don't stand out THAT much". Are these guys likely gay, or is this how they try to bait people in to get them to talk? I'm thinking it's just the latter because flattery usually works on strangers..
 
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Macadellic

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If it’s a male I shake my head no in stride and continue on.

If it’s a female I say “NO” in an assertive tone with dont fk with me eye contact as she is mid sentence as I continue on. Leaving her bent out of shape with the spear of rejection in her boss Barbie fragile ego.

Get a real job b/tch
 
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