"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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People on the street in major cities that try to sell you something

itouchyou

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If you live in a major city like NYC you will encounter the occasional guy on the street trying to get you to take a survey, sell you something, or otherwise stop you while you're trying to get somewhere.

For whatever reason the past few weeks I've been stopped by a few black guys on the subway, on the street, etc. I never stop, and for good reason.. last time I was literally 20 seconds away from missing the train.

What amuses me is that they will always try to get my attention by complimenting my appearance. Is this a sales tactic that they use, or are they really saying out loud what most people perceive us as? I've heard handsome, stud, nice haircut, well dressed, good looking, nice shoes.. and I'm just thinking to myself "lmao come on I don't stand out THAT much". Are these guys likely gay, or is this how they try to bait people in to get them to talk? I'm thinking it's just the latter because flattery usually works on strangers..
 
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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Macadellic

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If it’s a male I shake my head no in stride and continue on.

If it’s a female I say “NO” in an assertive tone with dont fk with me eye contact as she is mid sentence as I continue on. Leaving her bent out of shape with the spear of rejection in her boss Barbie fragile ego.

Get a real job b/tch
 
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