"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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People need to post more in this forum.

moneyisking

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Seriously, there's like hundreds of people reading threads and 10 posts are considered a lot. What, you thought just by reading posts from Master DJs was going to make you like one of them?

You got to put effort into what you do, let that be dating, hobbies, passions, or even drinking beer. What the hell are you doing reading all the good things but not posting anything? If you are on this forum, I assume you want to develop and improve as a man. Then take action! Either go all the way or don't idle around the forum like a bum. Man is respected by action, not will or words.

I am not telling you to post in every single thread, but it's okay to post some inputs that you would want to post, don't worry it's not illegal and no one is going to laugh at you. By posting your thoughts, you get to think and believe it or not, self realization and actualization is the most important part of dating. Or what, are you too much of sensitive homo to post anything? ACT.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Soprano

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moneyisking said:
Seriously, there's like hundreds of people reading threads and 10 posts are considered a lot. What, you thought just by reading posts from Master DJs was going to make you like one of them?

You got to put effort into what you do, let that be dating, hobbies, passions, or even drinking beer. What the hell are you doing reading all the good things but not posting anything? If you are on this forum, I assume you want to develop and improve as a man. Then take action! Either go all the way or don't idle around the forum like a bum. Man is respected by action, not will or words.

I am not telling you to post in every single thread, but it's okay to post some inputs that you would want to post, don't worry it's not illegal and no one is going to laugh at you. By posting your thoughts, you get to think and believe it or not, self realization and actualization is the most important part of dating. Or what, are you too much of sensitive homo to post anything? ACT.
ya take action, sit around and post on a internet msg board
 

Cure

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Enough total crap is spouted on these forums as it is!

People will post if they feel they have somthing to contribute, no point trying to force it.

Cure.
 

moneyisking

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I state that in everything, people need to take action; talking to girls, responsibilities, etc. Go out there and talk to those b!tches, find out what kind of person you're, what fits you, post and discuss. I am a man of improvement and I constantly seek it. If luke-warmers want to waste time just reading and not going out to talk to girls or not post, then it's their waste of fvcking time, but I wanted to say something for them to wake up.
 

Cinamon

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Just cause people are reading posts and not commenting doesnt mean they arent taking action. Let people find guidance here and utilise it in their personal lives. Nothing good ever comes from pressurising a person in to doing something. Let people find their own way.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Waking Up

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I don't post much because the majority of it has already been said.
 

fertileTurtle

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Less is better, but if you want to express your thoughts (up to 10 posts in a day), then say something new or something old in a new way. And girls suck, just not enough.

I would like to see 20+ posts on most every thread.
 
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