"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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People need to post more in this forum.

moneyisking

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Seriously, there's like hundreds of people reading threads and 10 posts are considered a lot. What, you thought just by reading posts from Master DJs was going to make you like one of them?

You got to put effort into what you do, let that be dating, hobbies, passions, or even drinking beer. What the hell are you doing reading all the good things but not posting anything? If you are on this forum, I assume you want to develop and improve as a man. Then take action! Either go all the way or don't idle around the forum like a bum. Man is respected by action, not will or words.

I am not telling you to post in every single thread, but it's okay to post some inputs that you would want to post, don't worry it's not illegal and no one is going to laugh at you. By posting your thoughts, you get to think and believe it or not, self realization and actualization is the most important part of dating. Or what, are you too much of sensitive homo to post anything? ACT.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Soprano

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moneyisking said:
Seriously, there's like hundreds of people reading threads and 10 posts are considered a lot. What, you thought just by reading posts from Master DJs was going to make you like one of them?

You got to put effort into what you do, let that be dating, hobbies, passions, or even drinking beer. What the hell are you doing reading all the good things but not posting anything? If you are on this forum, I assume you want to develop and improve as a man. Then take action! Either go all the way or don't idle around the forum like a bum. Man is respected by action, not will or words.

I am not telling you to post in every single thread, but it's okay to post some inputs that you would want to post, don't worry it's not illegal and no one is going to laugh at you. By posting your thoughts, you get to think and believe it or not, self realization and actualization is the most important part of dating. Or what, are you too much of sensitive homo to post anything? ACT.
ya take action, sit around and post on a internet msg board
 

Cure

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Enough total crap is spouted on these forums as it is!

People will post if they feel they have somthing to contribute, no point trying to force it.

Cure.
 

moneyisking

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I state that in everything, people need to take action; talking to girls, responsibilities, etc. Go out there and talk to those b!tches, find out what kind of person you're, what fits you, post and discuss. I am a man of improvement and I constantly seek it. If luke-warmers want to waste time just reading and not going out to talk to girls or not post, then it's their waste of fvcking time, but I wanted to say something for them to wake up.
 

Cinamon

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Just cause people are reading posts and not commenting doesnt mean they arent taking action. Let people find guidance here and utilise it in their personal lives. Nothing good ever comes from pressurising a person in to doing something. Let people find their own way.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Waking Up

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I don't post much because the majority of it has already been said.
 

fertileTurtle

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Less is better, but if you want to express your thoughts (up to 10 posts in a day), then say something new or something old in a new way. And girls suck, just not enough.

I would like to see 20+ posts on most every thread.
 
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