"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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People, it's easier than you think. (short)

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As my 200th post (I'm a friggen Senior Don Juan?!?!?)here, and possibly my last on this high-school forum (I am graduating in a few weeks) This is my reminder for high school students. I'm going to make it short and sweet.

DJing girls in high school is WAY easier than you think it is.

We talk so much about how to have the perfect attitude like C+F or Don'tgiveash!t or Alpha male, and to use the perfect tricks like kino, openers, neg-hits, and to do all these things for your looks.

You don't need to perfect them all.

You can make girls drool all over you by using even one or two of those tricks. Granted, you can be a perfectionist and get them all right, but in high school, you really don't need to.

90% of your competition is generally incompitant.

Simply by having read posts on this forum, you know more and have much better chances.

You can be a total AFC, except using one trick (ie kino) and the girls will drop like flies.

Remember that.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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oh ok. congrats. im not in high school anymore but college here is different. girls are girls. not yet women.
 

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The easiest way to DJ women in High School is to make a lot of friends.
 

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Snatch and Porky are both right.
 

Smooth as Anything

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:) Good attitude.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Under 800kids high schools suck for DJ'ing. Why? Too much gossip. All the overcrowded ones (2000 kids) are great though.
 

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Originally posted by R3N3GAD3
Under 800kids high schools suck for DJ'ing. Why? Too much gossip. All the overcrowded ones (2000 kids) are great though.
You'd think that, wouldn't you?

I get gossiped about constantly whenever I start dating a new girl or I hook up with a girl. It's a royal pain the ass. My school has 3600 people, too.
 

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Originally posted by Porky
You'd think that, wouldn't you?

I get gossiped about constantly whenever I start dating a new girl or I hook up with a girl. It's a royal pain the ass. My school has 3600 people, too.
Yea I would, haha. I'm in under 800 so...
 

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I dunno how many kids my school has so that's one less excuse for me, whee.

4 days and counting since starting my antimasturbational streak.
 

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I'm in a 400er.

Ugh.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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DJ Alejandro

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we have 4000+

i barely know 300.
 

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Our high school is about 900... but the entire school is grades Pre-K through 12, so many people have known each other for about 10 years. That's the part that sucks...
 

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*Blink**Blink*

Now how did this start?

People if your school is too small, meet girls outside of school I go to a 6-12th grade school of about 350 students total. Even though I am contantly gossiped about even when I'm not doing anything with girls, I've never had any problems. If you think your school is too small, you're making excuses. No matter where you are there's gonna be gossip. Live with it.

Go start some extracurriculars like sports or acting or volunteer work and meet girls from other schools.
 

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Originally posted by SnatchJP
*Blink**Blink*

Now how did this start?

People if your school is too small, meet girls outside of school I go to a 6-12th grade school of about 350 students total. Even though I am contantly gossiped about even when I'm not doing anything with girls, I've never had any problems. If you think your school is too small, you're making excuses. No matter where you are there's gonna be gossip. Live with it.

Go start some extracurriculars like sports or acting or volunteer work and meet girls from other schools.

Well it's not the gossiping issue, I just find that girls never connect with me inside school, but they do all the time outside. It's like I kill something, even though I'm not purposely doing it.
 

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Ive got it really bad

- 600 students from Grades 3-12
- Private School -> stuck up girls
- I have worst grade (11 -> nerds), 12 girls are hot but they treat me like im younger...and grade 10 girls are SUPER prude even with negs....
- Im new at school -> less social proof

GAY GAY GAY!!!!!!
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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