"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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People, it's easier than you think. (short)

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As my 200th post (I'm a friggen Senior Don Juan?!?!?)here, and possibly my last on this high-school forum (I am graduating in a few weeks) This is my reminder for high school students. I'm going to make it short and sweet.

DJing girls in high school is WAY easier than you think it is.

We talk so much about how to have the perfect attitude like C+F or Don'tgiveash!t or Alpha male, and to use the perfect tricks like kino, openers, neg-hits, and to do all these things for your looks.

You don't need to perfect them all.

You can make girls drool all over you by using even one or two of those tricks. Granted, you can be a perfectionist and get them all right, but in high school, you really don't need to.

90% of your competition is generally incompitant.

Simply by having read posts on this forum, you know more and have much better chances.

You can be a total AFC, except using one trick (ie kino) and the girls will drop like flies.

Remember that.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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oh ok. congrats. im not in high school anymore but college here is different. girls are girls. not yet women.
 

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The easiest way to DJ women in High School is to make a lot of friends.
 

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Snatch and Porky are both right.
 

Smooth as Anything

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:) Good attitude.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Under 800kids high schools suck for DJ'ing. Why? Too much gossip. All the overcrowded ones (2000 kids) are great though.
 

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Originally posted by R3N3GAD3
Under 800kids high schools suck for DJ'ing. Why? Too much gossip. All the overcrowded ones (2000 kids) are great though.
You'd think that, wouldn't you?

I get gossiped about constantly whenever I start dating a new girl or I hook up with a girl. It's a royal pain the ass. My school has 3600 people, too.
 

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Originally posted by Porky
You'd think that, wouldn't you?

I get gossiped about constantly whenever I start dating a new girl or I hook up with a girl. It's a royal pain the ass. My school has 3600 people, too.
Yea I would, haha. I'm in under 800 so...
 

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I dunno how many kids my school has so that's one less excuse for me, whee.

4 days and counting since starting my antimasturbational streak.
 

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I'm in a 400er.

Ugh.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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DJ Alejandro

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we have 4000+

i barely know 300.
 

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Our high school is about 900... but the entire school is grades Pre-K through 12, so many people have known each other for about 10 years. That's the part that sucks...
 

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*Blink**Blink*

Now how did this start?

People if your school is too small, meet girls outside of school I go to a 6-12th grade school of about 350 students total. Even though I am contantly gossiped about even when I'm not doing anything with girls, I've never had any problems. If you think your school is too small, you're making excuses. No matter where you are there's gonna be gossip. Live with it.

Go start some extracurriculars like sports or acting or volunteer work and meet girls from other schools.
 

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Originally posted by SnatchJP
*Blink**Blink*

Now how did this start?

People if your school is too small, meet girls outside of school I go to a 6-12th grade school of about 350 students total. Even though I am contantly gossiped about even when I'm not doing anything with girls, I've never had any problems. If you think your school is too small, you're making excuses. No matter where you are there's gonna be gossip. Live with it.

Go start some extracurriculars like sports or acting or volunteer work and meet girls from other schools.

Well it's not the gossiping issue, I just find that girls never connect with me inside school, but they do all the time outside. It's like I kill something, even though I'm not purposely doing it.
 

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Ive got it really bad

- 600 students from Grades 3-12
- Private School -> stuck up girls
- I have worst grade (11 -> nerds), 12 girls are hot but they treat me like im younger...and grade 10 girls are SUPER prude even with negs....
- Im new at school -> less social proof

GAY GAY GAY!!!!!!
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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