i just thought i'd do a short rant on how some users on here feel the need to post a reply to EVERY thread that exists ( you ppl know who u are). i dont mean to flame or openly criticize anyone in particular, but jeez. There is more to life than sosuave.net okay guys? count how many posts u have and think " maybe this guy has a point here, either i think i know the answer to every question or i just have too much free time on my hands." okay, im done now. thanks.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
people get off the computer and go outside...
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
insanity
Master Don Juan
i got called into work tonite, picked up a 12 pack, grabbed kingdom hearts 2. i'm alright. i can't wait till my gal is finished school though, then life will truly begin.
somedays i like coming on sosuave and somedays i just forget about it completely. i think the reason alot of people stick around is because maybe their afraid their going to miss that golden post that might have awesome meaning or maybe give them that boost they need to succeed
somedays i like coming on sosuave and somedays i just forget about it completely. i think the reason alot of people stick around is because maybe their afraid their going to miss that golden post that might have awesome meaning or maybe give them that boost they need to succeed
thederekeffect1
Master Don Juan
Speaking of, I almost forgot to post in this thread. Thanks for reminding me.
hmm. I mainly post in Anything Else, it's more of a fun place to have conversation with like-minded people. I am by no means an armchair DJ even though it's as hard to do as much as I'd like because I can't drive yet. Today I went out and saw a movie then went bowling with a few of my mates and some HBs. Yesterday me and my mates took a road trip down to Lansing (an hour away from where I live) and tried picking up some HBs and bought around 8 cases of bawls from the distribute (bawls = the ****in best drink ever).
But yea, if you spend more then an hour on this forum in your day do yourself a favor and unplug your computer. Break it even, that way you won't be able to cave to sudden impulses to goto sosauve.
But yea, if you spend more then an hour on this forum in your day do yourself a favor and unplug your computer. Break it even, that way you won't be able to cave to sudden impulses to goto sosauve.
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Shiftkey
Master Don Juan
Kingdom Hearts 2? I liked the first one, is it any good?insanity said:i got called into work tonite, picked up a 12 pack, grabbed kingdom hearts 2. i'm alright. i can't wait till my gal is finished school though, then life will truly begin.
somedays i like coming on sosuave and somedays i just forget about it completely. i think the reason alot of people stick around is because maybe their afraid their going to miss that golden post that might have awesome meaning or maybe give them that boost they need to succeed
Post 3050 w00t!
Brian20o2
Master Don Juan
You have a good point. Anyone who has even skimmed the DJB would probly be able to answer their own questions if they thought about it for about 5 min.
Personally I only post in AE and H&F because the other ones are so full of usless banter.
Personally I only post in AE and H&F because the other ones are so full of usless banter.