"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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people get off the computer and go outside...

jlr12584

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i just thought i'd do a short rant on how some users on here feel the need to post a reply to EVERY thread that exists ( you ppl know who u are). i dont mean to flame or openly criticize anyone in particular, but jeez. There is more to life than sosuave.net okay guys? count how many posts u have and think " maybe this guy has a point here, either i think i know the answer to every question or i just have too much free time on my hands." okay, im done now. thanks.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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insanity

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i got called into work tonite, picked up a 12 pack, grabbed kingdom hearts 2. i'm alright. i can't wait till my gal is finished school though, then life will truly begin.

somedays i like coming on sosuave and somedays i just forget about it completely. i think the reason alot of people stick around is because maybe their afraid their going to miss that golden post that might have awesome meaning or maybe give them that boost they need to succeed
 

AB500

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hmm. I mainly post in Anything Else, it's more of a fun place to have conversation with like-minded people. I am by no means an armchair DJ even though it's as hard to do as much as I'd like because I can't drive yet. Today I went out and saw a movie then went bowling with a few of my mates and some HBs. Yesterday me and my mates took a road trip down to Lansing (an hour away from where I live) and tried picking up some HBs and bought around 8 cases of bawls from the distribute (bawls = the ****in best drink ever).

But yea, if you spend more then an hour on this forum in your day do yourself a favor and unplug your computer. Break it even, that way you won't be able to cave to sudden impulses to goto sosauve.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Shiftkey

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insanity said:
i got called into work tonite, picked up a 12 pack, grabbed kingdom hearts 2. i'm alright. i can't wait till my gal is finished school though, then life will truly begin.

somedays i like coming on sosuave and somedays i just forget about it completely. i think the reason alot of people stick around is because maybe their afraid their going to miss that golden post that might have awesome meaning or maybe give them that boost they need to succeed
Kingdom Hearts 2? I liked the first one, is it any good?

Post 3050 w00t!
 

Brian20o2

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You have a good point. Anyone who has even skimmed the DJB would probly be able to answer their own questions if they thought about it for about 5 min.

Personally I only post in AE and H&F because the other ones are so full of usless banter.
 

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Sometimes you really don't have anything better to do (like if you cant drive/no one to call), and you like to help people...


But you're right.
 
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