People do not feel you, they react towards you.

[TheManMasenko]

90% of people, whether you say something true or false. They will be reacting toward you and who you are. They don't listen, they are feeling.

Most people lack accountability and go through life emotionally based = never listening, just reacting.

@Stanley told me "you just have to accept people for who they are". This is what 10% of people do. They accept people. They listen. They hear. Then react with emotion but with logic as well.

These people are accountable, usually living less on emotion and more with logical awareness which is preferably gained through experience/reflection.

You can apply this with women too. Please discuss.

 

[TheManMasenko]

As I expand my work with to meet new people in my business endeavor, plus conflicting with family members and women I found this to be the case. I can tell the truth, and they'll hear me but cannot resonate.

In these situations, the best thing to do is to be calm and collected, then articulate yourself differently to get the point across. Slow and steady wins the race. If you claim you don't have patience for this, then don't apply it. You are not ready to be a leader. As @Stanley also said to me "sometimes you can have a relationship, but understand your place/role in it."

 

[BackInTheGame78]

People simply don't care that much about other people. They spend 95% of their time thinking about themselves and what they have going on in their life.

 

[Stanley]

Hmm... I don't recall phrasing it as such, but I think I understand what you're saying.



Most people do lack accountability and you should accept people for who they are when they show you their true colors. That doesn't mean people can't change, but the core person behind those actions rarely deviates from who they are drastically.

I think maybe this is stemming from when we talked about other people's judgments and projections placed onto you? The intent behind that was that others people's inner battles and shortcomings are not your burden. They will see you deviating from the mold they've placed you in and if they are bitter envious people they will seek to bring you down. Water finds its own level in other words.

You've got to shrug that off and keep on keeping on. You cannot allow others to bring you down while pursuing your purpose and ambitions.

 

[The Duke]

90% of people, whether you say something true or false. They will be reacting toward you and who you are. They don't listen, they are feeling.

Most people lack accountability and go through life emotionally based = never listening, just reacting.

@Stanley told me "you just have to accept people for who they are". This is what 10% of people do. They accept people. They listen. They hear. Then react with emotion but with logic as well.

These people are accountable, usually living less on emotion and more with logical awareness which is preferably gained through experience/reflection.

You can apply this with women too. Please discuss.

Only those who reason with sound logic and have solid awareness will understand. It's easy to see who has it and who doesn't. If you recognize these kinds of differences, then it's a very special thing. One that you keep in your pocket and only share with others who are similar.

I've always struggled to connect with those who reason with more emotion than logic.

It's probably the one thing that keeps me from truly falling for a female.

The old saying "it's not what you say, it's how you say it". There's a reason that's so true.