“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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People calling you ugly

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What can I do to make myself look more attractive and better looking. Alot of times I hear people say oh he looks ugly and **** like that what can I do to look better. I know I got to have a personality too
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Clean somewhat stylish clothes have a nice impact on your image. But there are other things you can do. If you walk around confident about your looks and like a man. Chest out, shoulders low and back, you typically create a pretty good impression.
 

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Hey
You could get some new clothes, improve posture, smile more, clear up any acne problems, work out more, get a tan, and just relax and be cool about things
 

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Go to a hair salon and ask a haircutter which style would look best on you, look through a book of haircuts that are considered "in", look up idea's on the net, the options are plenty. A few haircuts that are considered "in" are still the flipped up front, spikier hair, and purposely messy hair (you'll see how it's supposed to look in the books and on the net).
 

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Well I'm black and I don't really like those kind of haircuts. I just cesars and tapeups. Sry not trying to be racist are anything
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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dude get dreads, not too fat tho, if your black then it'll be way easy to get dreads, for good dread instructions go to knottyboy.com, im white, w/ bone streight hair, but the methods on this site even got me nice quality dreads
 

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Originally posted by Tooms
dude get dreads, not too fat tho, if your black then it'll be way easy to get dreads, for good dread instructions go to knottyboy.com, im white, w/ bone streight hair, but the methods on this site even got me nice quality dreads
No, dont do that. And being black doesnt mean its "easy" to get dreads. Just get a fade.
 

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dude ive got dreads, and ive made them for others, its way easier to make dreads with black peoples hair
 

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Originally posted by Tooms
dude ive got dreads, and ive made them for others, its way easier to make dreads with black peoples hair
That isnt goin to make him look better you fag. Thats probably the only hairstyle u know for black people. Shut up and go 2 sleep biattttch!
 

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dude it might, if it fits his face, longer down the side of the head hair can be good, though im not sayin its the only option of course
 

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screw dreads, cane rolls looks smart
 

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In England there called cane :D
 

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I'm not changing my hair. I just want to know what I can do to look more attractive.I'm kind of overweight if I lost some of the weight think I'd look better?
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Im pretty sure there's a post about this somewhere but I guess I could give my 2 cents....

First off you mentioned you was over weight? This may be true it all depends on your hight exc. You may not be over weight you may just need to tone up. Maybe you could post your specs?

Clothes- The funny thing I've noticed about clothes is that you can find really good bargains if you look hard enough. You don't have to shop at the most expensive store. Most expensive thing I have in my closet is a couple of American Eagle shirts that a chick bought me. I myself don't shop there. I shop Sears, JC Penny, and of course Wal-Mart. Yeah you heard me, Wal-Mart they do have SOME good clothes that look da*m good. I can't think of how many compliments I've got from people before when I was wearing Wal-Mart clothing. You just have to know what your doing. They also have really good buys on shoes.

You said you was black, I'm mixed or something lol so Im a darkish brown. So I'd say you need to stick to medium and light colors. Dark colors are ok but I believe for blacks lighter colors are the way to go. Colors like, Red, blue, baby blue, light brown, light green, exc.

Always try to find clothes for the season your in but also look for special buys on other seasons. Example: Say your shopping for shorts in summer and you come across a nice sweater thats really cheap, buy it. Always stock up. That's where a lot of people go wrong is just buying for that paticular season and waiting till last minute to buy long sleeves or whatever it is that they need for the next season. If I only had a dollar for everytime I heard someone say in school "I need some summer clothes." Its not good to be wearing "hoodies" in the middile of summer :p

Pants are very crucial to your wardrobe. Blue Jeans, kaki pants (sp) Cargo Pants, Black Jeans ( I myself not a fan of them)
Always make sure you have a couple of each. Buy a few different colored kaki/ cargo pants.

Shoes- I believe shoes are even more importaint than pants because believe it or not thats the first thing that a lot of people notice. So you need ATLEAST 4 pairs. Tennis shoes, Casal Shoes such as K-swiss or something. Boots, no not cowboy boots unless your into that sorta thing. Dress shoes, these can be loafers, exc. The reason for all the shoes is the different outfits. I myself don't liek to wear tennis shoes with kaki pants, then again thats my preference just using it as an example.

You possibly won't like everything I mentioned because each person has a different style. Just take what you do liek and augment it some.

Also if anyone else could add anything, Im sure I've missed something.

Good Luck in your change...
 

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Originally posted by JBizzle
First off you mentioned you was over weight? This may be true it all depends on your hight exc. You may not be over weight you may just need to tone up.
What the **** are you talking about? "You may just need to tone up"
 

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I have no other way to explain unless you would like me to try and draw you a picture?:D And to tell ya the truth, I'm a sucky drawer unless you count stick figures.

All kiddin aside...say a guy 5'7 weighs 150 pounds, this may be over weight to him but a guy that's 6'3 he would be considered skinny.

I hope this helps?
 

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You mentioned that they called you "ugly". This has very little to do with clothes (although these help), get a decent haircut, and don't get down. In the words of pook, "you can't change your genes". I don't consider myself to be adonis, and i get my share of women, and a few other people's shares. Just work on the personality first. Good luck.
 
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