People Aren't using Tinder to Date or Hookup

[Zimbabwe]

My friend has been talking to a guy on Tinder for FOUR MONTHS and has no intention of ever meeting up with him.

In fact, she just called me yesterday to say he finally asked if he could take her on a date, and she was totally repulsed.

Over 70 percent of the people on the dating app have never even bothered to go on a date with a match.

The large majority of us aren't on the app to find love or a quick hookup. In fact, only about 4 percent of those surveyed said they used Tinder to look for a relationship.

Instead, most of us (about 44 percent) like to go on Tinder for a good, old-fashioned confidence boost

This isn't shocking but it's nice to see actual data to back it up, most women are just on Tinder for an ego boost and a very small percentage ever meet up with anyone. To think this was back in 2017, imagine how much worse it has gotten.

This is why we all need to stick to cold approach/Bars.

Science Says We All Use Tinder For The Same Reason, And It’s Not To Date Or Hook Up

My friend has been talking to a guy on Tinder for FOUR MONTHS and has no intention of ever meeting up with him. In fact, she just called me yesterday to say he finally asked if he could take her on a date, and she was totally repulsed. Yep, you read…

www.elitedaily.com

 

[Robert28]

I’ve never understood how a total complete stranger that you don’t even know, aren’t even face to face with, giving you compliments is somehow addictive to women.

 

[corrector]

Great so you don't have to feel bad anymore. Digging through articles like that as a cope. You are going to be the next @MatureDJ posting up threads with articles like that for your incel cope, lol!

 

[Zimbabwe]

I’ve never understood how a total complete stranger that you don’t even know, aren’t even face to face with, giving you compliments is somehow addictive to women.

I can never understand it myself, do they seriously have nothing better to do with their free time then talk to strangers on a dating app?

It's actually really sad when you think about it.

 

[SW15]

This is why we all need to stick to cold approach/Bars.

It is impossible to ghost in the middle of an approach.

 

[Stuffnu]

Nothing but trash on OLD‘s and should be dropped curbside like it was garbage.

 

[Robert28]

It is impossible to ghost in the middle of an approach.

Not really. I’ve had women say nothing and just walk off when I was in the middle of talking to them.

 

[Zimbabwe]

It is impossible to ghost in the middle of an approach.

No catfishing from SIFs as well, what you see is what you get.

Great so you don't have to feel bad anymore. Digging through articles like that as a cope. You are going to be the next @MatureDJ posting up threads with articles like that for your incel cope, lol!

You wake up on the wrong side of the bed today?

 

[RickTheToad]

Great so you don't have to feel bad anymore. Digging through articles like that as a cope. You are going to be the next @MatureDJ posting up threads with articles like that for your incel cope, lol!

He'll call them Tindercels.

 

[DelayedGratification]

Timely. Had a promising match on Bumble (which is rare, both in the matching and promising dept) who went silent as we started approaching the threshold of actually meeting. Tonight, in a rare act of classy-move for this medium, told me that she was going back to her boyfriend.

All sorts of explanations for that, none of them good, so see ya later spineless wench...

 

[FlexpertHamilton]

Tinder has been a joke for several years now, as with most dating apps. I've had some success with Hinge in the past couple years, although I don't use it anymore. Dating apps suffer the same problems as social media, and I despise what they've done to women's sense of entitlement and ego.

Cold approach has never seemed like a better option than it is today. Especially with the prevelence of weak-minded faggot simps out there, it doesn't take much to stand out.

 

[jaymbrs]

This means we may be nearing the end of this OLD garbage and back to normalcy.

 

[Bokanovsky]

I meet lots of chciks off of apps, including Tinder.

Getting chicks to meet off of apps is extremely easy if you follow a rapport-building process. It's banging them that's hard. Getting chicks to meet for a drink or coffee tho? super easy.

Same here. I’ve met lots of chicks through dating apps. Some of them were actually decent girls that I dated long term. So it’s hard for me to relate my experience to the original post.

 

[SW15]

Getting chicks to meet off of apps is extremely easy if you follow a rapport-building process. It's banging them that's hard. Getting chicks to meet for a drink or coffee tho? super easy.

Getting the bang has always been difficult. Getting them to agree to a date has been much easier. We've had similar experiences.

 

[Zimbabwe]

Same here. I’ve met lots of chicks through dating apps. Some of them were actually decent girls that I dated long term. So it’s hard for me to relate my experience to the original post.

It's easy if We all just throw out our standards like i did here.

 

[corrector]

How humiliating. What's even funnier is that she will still try to turn you into an orbiter.

She on white man CC. The OP is white?

 

[SW15]

Not really. I’ve had women say nothing and just walk off when I was in the middle of talking to them.

I don't recall that happening to me but it is possible that it has.

Yes, but she's also in Sydney. Asian women are simped over in Sydney.

Every single average white guy is trying to get an Asian girlfriend now.

Probably because the white women in Sydney are terrible in terms of personality. I've never been though I've heard SJW-ism/feminism are strong there. It's almost as bad as Toronto from what I've heard.

 

[Zimbabwe]

Yes, but she's also in Sydney. Asian women are simped over in Sydney.

Every single average white guy is trying to get an Asian girlfriend now.

And every Ethnic guy is trying to get a white girlfriend

I don't recall that happening to me but it is possible that it has.



Probably because the white women in Sydney are terrible in terms of personality. I've never been though I've heard SJW-ism/feminism are strong there. It's almost as bad as Toronto from what I've heard.

The only white girls PUAs target are tourist/backpackers from Europe and almost never local Anglo Saxon women.

 

[SW15]

And every Ethnic guy is trying to get a white girlfriend

I've seen that a lot in major U.S. cities. White women are deluged in major U.S. cities, both from white men and non-white men. U.S. white women tend to not be the best in terms of atttitude.

The only white girls PUAs target are tourist/backpackers from Europe and almost never local Anglo Saxon women.

I can imagine that. European backpackers may be more pleasant at least for short term, casual sex.

This is why we all need to stick to cold approach/Bars.

Agree. Any in-person approaching is better than electronic screen approaching. Yes, there are bad avenues in-person though, such as Meetup.com groups.

 

[Zimbabwe]

I've seen that a lot in major U.S. cities. White women are deluged in major U.S. cities, both from white men and non-white men. U.S. white women tend to not be the best in terms of atttitude.



I can imagine that. European backpackers may be more pleasant at least for short term, casual sex.



Agree. Any in-person approaching is better than electronic screen approaching. Yes, there are bad avenues in-person though, such as Meetup.com groups.

Ethnic guys, especially indians take it to a whole new level with how thirsty they are for white girls. People complain about White guys on yellow fever but those ethnics are on a whole new level.

The whole obessesion with race is weird to me, I remember posting a photo with my Korean girlfriend a few years back and some random commented

"casual sex only, do not breed"