"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I have been seeing a chick for about 3+ months now and things are going great. Except for one issue. Earlier last week she said that I would be perfect if it was not for penis size. She said I was bigger than most of her boyfriends in the past, until her last two, both have been in excess of 8.5in she has a thing to be filled up, it gives her a "powerless" feeling.

Now I don't know how to fully react to this, I am 6.2in and 5 in girth more or less average/slightly above. Never had there been a complaint in the past, and this woman herself has been able to orgasm. She is simply seeking out this feeling.

I tried to be as pragmatic as possible when she mentioned it saying well thats too bad, I never had an issue before, perhaps you should do some kegals if your prior two bedmates have streched you out. I went on to say if we ever did get serious serious and kegles/raw sex when we get there doesn't do it for her we could look into possible other options.

Do I just throw her to the side which is something I don't want to do, and I actually admire her honnesty with me, I just hope it wasn't a male neg hit on her part b/c she has some fixation that I am hotter than her in her opinon and might be trying to knock me down to size, no pun intended.....
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Alkali

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Now is that eight with an erection or without?
 

ngrimes65

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I am pretty sure that is errect, regardless one guy was big and the other was huge. I really dont think it matters what they were specifically. I was just wondering if anyone else has experienced such a situation. How they handled it and if its worth continuining a relationship that does look like it is progressing swimmingly besides this one thing.
 

Viking25

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Tell her she would be perfect if she had bigger t1ts!..haha..She obbiously has no respect for you or is realy dumb. Either way...don't plan on the future with her!
Of course there are pen1s extenders...sleeve like silicone things..look it up on any adult store website. They do the job!
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Some chicks just like big ones, but for many it's PITA (figuratively speaking) and causes all sorts of lube and tearing issues. I think 6" is supposed to be average or maybe a shade over, so you shouldn't have any worries normally.
 

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Tell her she's alright, but she'd be perfect if she had a really tight pusssy like your last girlfriend.
 

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eheh I actually mentioned a boob job to her last night...... It was a dumb thing to say, we were both piss drunk though, so I am trying to look at it in the best light. I guess though I am going to have to be very skeptical with her if I even attempt to continue this.
 

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ngrimes65 said:
she has a thing to be filled up, it gives her a "powerless" feeling.
That's the most important thing in this post.
 

mintxx

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Master Bates said:
Tell her she's alright, but she'd be perfect if she had a really tight pusssy like your last girlfriend.
Exactly. WHo the fvck does she think she is? I'd walk, and I have for similar.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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NickSCFC2000

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Dump her, she's a ***** for saying that.

Average male erection is roughly 6 inches, some even say it's only 5 1/2.
 
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She does not deserve you. Not worthy of your time.... period
 

Road Demon

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Put it in her backdoor.

That should solve the problem of both size and 'power.'
 

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Alkali said:
Now is that eight with an erection or without?
damn... you must be really stupid!!! youre an idiot!!!! of course erected yah dumb ****... who has a limp 8 in penis?????
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Michele l'Arcangelo

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hbxdoode said:
damn... you must be really stupid!!! youre an idiot!!!! of course erected yah dumb ****... who has a limp 8 in penis?????
don't be mean :( he just wants to use his imagination.
 

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One day i hope to be a DJ as smart as Bvbidd.

He said that
That's the most important thing in this post.
Refering to the fact that the "powerless" sensation a large penis gives her is the most important thing said so far.

You have to figure out how to capture that feeling and give it to her somehow. For example, the whole - a girl says she likes tall guys becasue they make her feel safe. Well, that just means a short guy has to make her feel secure and he's in.

Bvbidd, gave you some awsome advice here, and everyone ignored it (well - they didn't post anyhting about it). Instead you all just kept talking about penis's (or peni? - what is the plural form of penis?)
 

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Master Bates said:
Tell her she's alright, but she'd be perfect if she had a really tight pusssy like your last girlfriend.
Correctamundo.


Road Demon said:
Put it in her backdoor.

That should solve the problem of both size and 'power.'
Correctamundo x 2.
 

sam3083

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Are you serious? That looks ridiculous, lol.

Maybe your supposed to play around with the apostraphe. penis', penis's, penises' etc
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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