Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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I have been seeing a chick for about 3+ months now and things are going great. Except for one issue. Earlier last week she said that I would be perfect if it was not for penis size. She said I was bigger than most of her boyfriends in the past, until her last two, both have been in excess of 8.5in she has a thing to be filled up, it gives her a "powerless" feeling.

Now I don't know how to fully react to this, I am 6.2in and 5 in girth more or less average/slightly above. Never had there been a complaint in the past, and this woman herself has been able to orgasm. She is simply seeking out this feeling.

I tried to be as pragmatic as possible when she mentioned it saying well thats too bad, I never had an issue before, perhaps you should do some kegals if your prior two bedmates have streched you out. I went on to say if we ever did get serious serious and kegles/raw sex when we get there doesn't do it for her we could look into possible other options.

Do I just throw her to the side which is something I don't want to do, and I actually admire her honnesty with me, I just hope it wasn't a male neg hit on her part b/c she has some fixation that I am hotter than her in her opinon and might be trying to knock me down to size, no pun intended.....
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Alkali

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Now is that eight with an erection or without?
 

ngrimes65

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I am pretty sure that is errect, regardless one guy was big and the other was huge. I really dont think it matters what they were specifically. I was just wondering if anyone else has experienced such a situation. How they handled it and if its worth continuining a relationship that does look like it is progressing swimmingly besides this one thing.
 

Viking25

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Tell her she would be perfect if she had bigger t1ts!..haha..She obbiously has no respect for you or is realy dumb. Either way...don't plan on the future with her!
Of course there are pen1s extenders...sleeve like silicone things..look it up on any adult store website. They do the job!
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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bigjohnson

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Some chicks just like big ones, but for many it's PITA (figuratively speaking) and causes all sorts of lube and tearing issues. I think 6" is supposed to be average or maybe a shade over, so you shouldn't have any worries normally.
 

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Tell her she's alright, but she'd be perfect if she had a really tight pusssy like your last girlfriend.
 

ngrimes65

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eheh I actually mentioned a boob job to her last night...... It was a dumb thing to say, we were both piss drunk though, so I am trying to look at it in the best light. I guess though I am going to have to be very skeptical with her if I even attempt to continue this.
 

Bvbidd

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ngrimes65 said:
she has a thing to be filled up, it gives her a "powerless" feeling.
That's the most important thing in this post.
 

mintxx

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Master Bates said:
Tell her she's alright, but she'd be perfect if she had a really tight pusssy like your last girlfriend.
Exactly. WHo the fvck does she think she is? I'd walk, and I have for similar.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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NickSCFC2000

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Dump her, she's a ***** for saying that.

Average male erection is roughly 6 inches, some even say it's only 5 1/2.
 
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amoka

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She does not deserve you. Not worthy of your time.... period
 

Road Demon

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Put it in her backdoor.

That should solve the problem of both size and 'power.'
 

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Alkali said:
Now is that eight with an erection or without?
damn... you must be really stupid!!! youre an idiot!!!! of course erected yah dumb ****... who has a limp 8 in penis?????
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Michele l'Arcangelo

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hbxdoode said:
damn... you must be really stupid!!! youre an idiot!!!! of course erected yah dumb ****... who has a limp 8 in penis?????
don't be mean :( he just wants to use his imagination.
 

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One day i hope to be a DJ as smart as Bvbidd.

He said that
That's the most important thing in this post.
Refering to the fact that the "powerless" sensation a large penis gives her is the most important thing said so far.

You have to figure out how to capture that feeling and give it to her somehow. For example, the whole - a girl says she likes tall guys becasue they make her feel safe. Well, that just means a short guy has to make her feel secure and he's in.

Bvbidd, gave you some awsome advice here, and everyone ignored it (well - they didn't post anyhting about it). Instead you all just kept talking about penis's (or peni? - what is the plural form of penis?)
 

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Master Bates said:
Tell her she's alright, but she'd be perfect if she had a really tight pusssy like your last girlfriend.
Correctamundo.


Road Demon said:
Put it in her backdoor.

That should solve the problem of both size and 'power.'
Correctamundo x 2.
 

sam3083

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Are you serious? That looks ridiculous, lol.

Maybe your supposed to play around with the apostraphe. penis', penis's, penises' etc
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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