"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Like 10 days ago I had some very intense and long masturbation sessions. I usualy do this to fight depression. Basically I masturbated until I couldn't get it up anymore, then continued. I used the death grip technique, that is, squeezing the head between my thumb and finger.

Well, I must have hurt myself. My **** was completely numb for an entire day, then there was this throbbing pain in my glans. Now the pain has resolved, but if I try to masturbate by touching the glans it starts hurting again. It also seems like I have less sensation. I can't see much bruising, and am able to get an erection, have intercourse and *** normally.

So do you think this will resolve over time, or have I hurt the nerves or something important? I just wonder if I should take this to a doctor, which I'd rather avoid since it's, well embarrasing, and because of money issues.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Don't jerk off for a few days and see if the problem persists. If yes, see a doctor right away, it's worth the sacrifice.

I guess the death grip finally lived up to its name. haha
 

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take it easy dude. cmon relax. when you are depressed jacking off aint the fix all answer.
 

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buy a flesh lite in the future..... its an artificail vagina
probably more realistic and dont hurt
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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If it hurts, then stop doing it. Leave it alone.

Also, don't put things in your mouth you find on the floor.
 

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Basically I masturbated until I couldn't get it up anymore, then continued. I used the death grip technique, that is, squeezing the head between my thumb and finger.
This iz AMOG technicq, U are despLaying alpha male trait and marking your territory so betas will not try touch what is yurz HB 8.7.
 

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f it hurts, then stop doing it. Leave it alone.

Also, don't put things in your mouth you find on the floor.
09-20-2010 02:22 PM
Obviously. I only masturbate in a non-hurtful manner now. I just wanted reassurances that no permanent damage has occured.

take it easy dude. cmon relax. when you are depressed jacking off aint the fix all answer.
09-20-2010 04:58 AM
Ufortunately it is my drug addiction so to speak. I just can't get over my fascination and need for porn. One of these days I will make a post about that. It's sad. This is what happens when you lose your virginity at age 24...
 

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So. . .. ... how many times did you do it in a row?

I did 4 times in a day once man that **** hurt.
 

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Bonaparte said:
Obviously. I only masturbate in a non-hurtful manner now. I just wanted reassurances that no permanent damage has occured.
How are we supposed to know?

Whenever I'm feeling ill or I get hurt, I treat it myself if I can. If it gets better by itself then I wait patiently until I heal. If it doesn't improve within a couple days I'll go to the doctor for medicine or stitches.

Ufortunately it is my drug addiction so to speak. I just can't get over my fascination and need for porn. One of these days I will make a post about that. It's sad. This is what happens when you lose your virginity at age 24...
There's a whole thread about this in the archives. Put a block on your computer (like OpenDNS) and stop using the computer as much. Do something else. It will make it easier to deal with if you don't have access to it. If you have magazines or DVDs, then destroy them. Go get laid, porn is useless.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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San Jose California said:
I swear... whenever I masturbate that much, the next day a really ugly girl is there to hit on me.
Wow that is major karma in action.

Four times a day far too much man. In my past I would do it twice a day and my penis would be sore. My pee/sperm tube seems too narrow and when i come it hurts for a day or so if I haven't released for a while. Does anybody else have this problem?
 
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