"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Penis problems

Bonaparte

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Like 10 days ago I had some very intense and long masturbation sessions. I usualy do this to fight depression. Basically I masturbated until I couldn't get it up anymore, then continued. I used the death grip technique, that is, squeezing the head between my thumb and finger.

Well, I must have hurt myself. My **** was completely numb for an entire day, then there was this throbbing pain in my glans. Now the pain has resolved, but if I try to masturbate by touching the glans it starts hurting again. It also seems like I have less sensation. I can't see much bruising, and am able to get an erection, have intercourse and *** normally.

So do you think this will resolve over time, or have I hurt the nerves or something important? I just wonder if I should take this to a doctor, which I'd rather avoid since it's, well embarrasing, and because of money issues.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Don't jerk off for a few days and see if the problem persists. If yes, see a doctor right away, it's worth the sacrifice.

I guess the death grip finally lived up to its name. haha
 

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take it easy dude. cmon relax. when you are depressed jacking off aint the fix all answer.
 

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buy a flesh lite in the future..... its an artificail vagina
probably more realistic and dont hurt
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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If it hurts, then stop doing it. Leave it alone.

Also, don't put things in your mouth you find on the floor.
 

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Basically I masturbated until I couldn't get it up anymore, then continued. I used the death grip technique, that is, squeezing the head between my thumb and finger.
This iz AMOG technicq, U are despLaying alpha male trait and marking your territory so betas will not try touch what is yurz HB 8.7.
 

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f it hurts, then stop doing it. Leave it alone.

Also, don't put things in your mouth you find on the floor.
09-20-2010 02:22 PM
Obviously. I only masturbate in a non-hurtful manner now. I just wanted reassurances that no permanent damage has occured.

take it easy dude. cmon relax. when you are depressed jacking off aint the fix all answer.
09-20-2010 04:58 AM
Ufortunately it is my drug addiction so to speak. I just can't get over my fascination and need for porn. One of these days I will make a post about that. It's sad. This is what happens when you lose your virginity at age 24...
 

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So. . .. ... how many times did you do it in a row?

I did 4 times in a day once man that **** hurt.
 

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Bonaparte said:
Obviously. I only masturbate in a non-hurtful manner now. I just wanted reassurances that no permanent damage has occured.
How are we supposed to know?

Whenever I'm feeling ill or I get hurt, I treat it myself if I can. If it gets better by itself then I wait patiently until I heal. If it doesn't improve within a couple days I'll go to the doctor for medicine or stitches.

Ufortunately it is my drug addiction so to speak. I just can't get over my fascination and need for porn. One of these days I will make a post about that. It's sad. This is what happens when you lose your virginity at age 24...
There's a whole thread about this in the archives. Put a block on your computer (like OpenDNS) and stop using the computer as much. Do something else. It will make it easier to deal with if you don't have access to it. If you have magazines or DVDs, then destroy them. Go get laid, porn is useless.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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San Jose California said:
I swear... whenever I masturbate that much, the next day a really ugly girl is there to hit on me.
Wow that is major karma in action.

Four times a day far too much man. In my past I would do it twice a day and my penis would be sore. My pee/sperm tube seems too narrow and when i come it hurts for a day or so if I haven't released for a while. Does anybody else have this problem?
 
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