"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Like 10 days ago I had some very intense and long masturbation sessions. I usualy do this to fight depression. Basically I masturbated until I couldn't get it up anymore, then continued. I used the death grip technique, that is, squeezing the head between my thumb and finger.

Well, I must have hurt myself. My **** was completely numb for an entire day, then there was this throbbing pain in my glans. Now the pain has resolved, but if I try to masturbate by touching the glans it starts hurting again. It also seems like I have less sensation. I can't see much bruising, and am able to get an erection, have intercourse and *** normally.

So do you think this will resolve over time, or have I hurt the nerves or something important? I just wonder if I should take this to a doctor, which I'd rather avoid since it's, well embarrasing, and because of money issues.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Don't jerk off for a few days and see if the problem persists. If yes, see a doctor right away, it's worth the sacrifice.

I guess the death grip finally lived up to its name. haha
 

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take it easy dude. cmon relax. when you are depressed jacking off aint the fix all answer.
 

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buy a flesh lite in the future..... its an artificail vagina
probably more realistic and dont hurt
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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If it hurts, then stop doing it. Leave it alone.

Also, don't put things in your mouth you find on the floor.
 

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Basically I masturbated until I couldn't get it up anymore, then continued. I used the death grip technique, that is, squeezing the head between my thumb and finger.
This iz AMOG technicq, U are despLaying alpha male trait and marking your territory so betas will not try touch what is yurz HB 8.7.
 

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f it hurts, then stop doing it. Leave it alone.

Also, don't put things in your mouth you find on the floor.
09-20-2010 02:22 PM
Obviously. I only masturbate in a non-hurtful manner now. I just wanted reassurances that no permanent damage has occured.

take it easy dude. cmon relax. when you are depressed jacking off aint the fix all answer.
09-20-2010 04:58 AM
Ufortunately it is my drug addiction so to speak. I just can't get over my fascination and need for porn. One of these days I will make a post about that. It's sad. This is what happens when you lose your virginity at age 24...
 

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So. . .. ... how many times did you do it in a row?

I did 4 times in a day once man that **** hurt.
 

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Bonaparte said:
Obviously. I only masturbate in a non-hurtful manner now. I just wanted reassurances that no permanent damage has occured.
How are we supposed to know?

Whenever I'm feeling ill or I get hurt, I treat it myself if I can. If it gets better by itself then I wait patiently until I heal. If it doesn't improve within a couple days I'll go to the doctor for medicine or stitches.

Ufortunately it is my drug addiction so to speak. I just can't get over my fascination and need for porn. One of these days I will make a post about that. It's sad. This is what happens when you lose your virginity at age 24...
There's a whole thread about this in the archives. Put a block on your computer (like OpenDNS) and stop using the computer as much. Do something else. It will make it easier to deal with if you don't have access to it. If you have magazines or DVDs, then destroy them. Go get laid, porn is useless.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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San Jose California said:
I swear... whenever I masturbate that much, the next day a really ugly girl is there to hit on me.
Wow that is major karma in action.

Four times a day far too much man. In my past I would do it twice a day and my penis would be sore. My pee/sperm tube seems too narrow and when i come it hurts for a day or so if I haven't released for a while. Does anybody else have this problem?
 
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