"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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FBA808

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I love foreplay more than sex, but it seems like every guy I talk to likes sex more than foreplay.

So I got to thinking. Why do I not like sex as much?

Long story short, I realized maybe sex doesn't feel as good for me as it should.

In order for me to cumm, I noticed that (without even really realizing it) I HAVE to flex my leg muscles, and constantly flex my PC muscle. I thought maybe this was bad. Sometimes it would even be hard for me to stay hard.

So I went and masturbated without flexing my legs and without flexing my PC muscle. 45 minutes, I COULD NOT CUMM!!

So I took a week off. Went back, it took 30 minute but I was able to cumm without flexing legs or PC muscle, and it was literally THE BEST orgasm ever. And I know the week off contributed but I've gone a week even more between orgasms and trust me, this was the best!

So my THEORY as of now is that orgasms feel stronger when as many muscles as possible are relaxed when it's time to orgasm. Does anyone have any evidence that supports or conflicts with my new thoeory?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Junkyard

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Quit porn and masturbating. When the time comes to take care of business, u should bust in no time
 

SmoothTalker

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Lol isn't that usually a bad thing?

Anyway I think what you're experiencing is just habit. You've probably been flexing like this for years of masturbation, and your body now expects it before orgasm. Should go away with time if you stop doing it.
 

JEFE

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HELLO, one question I have for you is ¿do you experiment some pain when you cant ***? this is because you have to know that if some pain is experimented during sex this is for sure a medical problem and you should go to a doctor
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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