"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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FBA808

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I love foreplay more than sex, but it seems like every guy I talk to likes sex more than foreplay.

So I got to thinking. Why do I not like sex as much?

Long story short, I realized maybe sex doesn't feel as good for me as it should.

In order for me to cumm, I noticed that (without even really realizing it) I HAVE to flex my leg muscles, and constantly flex my PC muscle. I thought maybe this was bad. Sometimes it would even be hard for me to stay hard.

So I went and masturbated without flexing my legs and without flexing my PC muscle. 45 minutes, I COULD NOT CUMM!!

So I took a week off. Went back, it took 30 minute but I was able to cumm without flexing legs or PC muscle, and it was literally THE BEST orgasm ever. And I know the week off contributed but I've gone a week even more between orgasms and trust me, this was the best!

So my THEORY as of now is that orgasms feel stronger when as many muscles as possible are relaxed when it's time to orgasm. Does anyone have any evidence that supports or conflicts with my new thoeory?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Junkyard

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Quit porn and masturbating. When the time comes to take care of business, u should bust in no time
 

SmoothTalker

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Lol isn't that usually a bad thing?

Anyway I think what you're experiencing is just habit. You've probably been flexing like this for years of masturbation, and your body now expects it before orgasm. Should go away with time if you stop doing it.
 

JEFE

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HELLO, one question I have for you is ¿do you experiment some pain when you cant ***? this is because you have to know that if some pain is experimented during sex this is for sure a medical problem and you should go to a doctor
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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