"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Pendlay rows don't do it for me

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I was working on my back today, and finished a set of 2x8 barbell pendlay rows. As the workout taxed me, my back muscles seemed unscathed, and instead, my arms seems to take the hardest hit. Is there something wrong w/ my form? I bring my arms parallel to my body, and I grip the bar about the same place you would for bench press (middle finger on that little grove, don't know if that's standard or just at my gym).

I don't have access to video equipment. If rows continue to fail me, is there an alternative exercise that will properly substitute under this routine:

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=125444 (OPTION B)
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Pull your shoulder blades back and stick your ass out as much as possible. Looking up while doing it helps some people.

Ask your workout partner to correct your form.
 

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Looking up while doing it helps some people.
Your head should always be as close to a neutral position for a majority of everything you do, including rows.

As for the OP, if you want your back to work more keep your elbows as close to your body as possible. If your taking a wide grip try to touch your elbows together.

Alot of issues for benching translate over to rowing as well. Keep your elbows aligned with your belly button when you start to pull until you develop the ability to feel the specific area your trying to hit.
 

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Think of pulling with your elbows, not your hands. Your arms shouldn't end up "parallel with your body." They should end up behind you as you squeeze your shoulder blades together.

I did pendlay rows yesterday and I definitely don't feel it in my arms.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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