"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Pendlay rows don't do it for me

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I was working on my back today, and finished a set of 2x8 barbell pendlay rows. As the workout taxed me, my back muscles seemed unscathed, and instead, my arms seems to take the hardest hit. Is there something wrong w/ my form? I bring my arms parallel to my body, and I grip the bar about the same place you would for bench press (middle finger on that little grove, don't know if that's standard or just at my gym).

I don't have access to video equipment. If rows continue to fail me, is there an alternative exercise that will properly substitute under this routine:

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=125444 (OPTION B)
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Pull your shoulder blades back and stick your ass out as much as possible. Looking up while doing it helps some people.

Ask your workout partner to correct your form.
 

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Looking up while doing it helps some people.
Your head should always be as close to a neutral position for a majority of everything you do, including rows.

As for the OP, if you want your back to work more keep your elbows as close to your body as possible. If your taking a wide grip try to touch your elbows together.

Alot of issues for benching translate over to rowing as well. Keep your elbows aligned with your belly button when you start to pull until you develop the ability to feel the specific area your trying to hit.
 

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Think of pulling with your elbows, not your hands. Your arms shouldn't end up "parallel with your body." They should end up behind you as you squeeze your shoulder blades together.

I did pendlay rows yesterday and I definitely don't feel it in my arms.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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