I have been dating my girlfriend for eight months now. Just recently she has been having 'doubts' about our relationship. She is a pretty emotionally crazy girl, and it really hasn't been a burden on the relationship, and I have grown to love her as time as gone on. This time though, I think she is really starting to wonder, and it has me concerned. Her main argument is that I am the first guy she has dated for an extended period of time, and that although she knows she loves me and has never felt about any other guy like this, she naturally feels like she needs to take a break with me, and see what else is out there in order to prove that I am the right one for her. I have disagreed with her the whole time, saying that if we love each other and are happy together, why are you so curious to see what else is out there? I have said that I am not going to sit here waiting for her while she sees what else is out there, and then come back to her when she actually realizes I'm the one for her. I just have to convince her. And if she can't see that, then maybe she isn't the one for me. Right?
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Penalized For Being Her First Love?
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
OneEyedJack
Don Juan
It is girl code for I'm breaking up with you, but I don't want to hurt you (a lot)
She wants out, and there is nothing you can do
She wants out, and there is nothing you can do
KontrollerX
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http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=126471&highlight=breaks
I give you joekerr's thread on breaks.
Read and learn well sosuave soldier.
I give you joekerr's thread on breaks.
Read and learn well sosuave soldier.
MacAvoy
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Excellent post by Joekerr and on the money. Whatever you do, don't try to convince her that she's making a mistake. The only way you can convince her she made a mistake is by agreeing to the break, then get out there and find some new plates to spin.
You've been lurking on this site long enough to have red enough threads to see guys try get back their ex's who fail. The only success guys see is from No Contact and moving on.
You've been lurking on this site long enough to have red enough threads to see guys try get back their ex's who fail. The only success guys see is from No Contact and moving on.
MooseGod
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Eh, she'll be back after she has a couple of kids with different guys.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
CORVETTE06
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let her go
penkitten
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there comes a time in everyone ones life (not just guys) that every person wants to spin more plates.
they want to make sure the china they end up with goes with the rest of the decor.
they want to make sure the china they end up with goes with the rest of the decor.