I have been dating my girlfriend for eight months now. Just recently she has been having 'doubts' about our relationship. She is a pretty emotionally crazy girl, and it really hasn't been a burden on the relationship, and I have grown to love her as time as gone on. This time though, I think she is really starting to wonder, and it has me concerned. Her main argument is that I am the first guy she has dated for an extended period of time, and that although she knows she loves me and has never felt about any other guy like this, she naturally feels like she needs to take a break with me, and see what else is out there in order to prove that I am the right one for her. I have disagreed with her the whole time, saying that if we love each other and are happy together, why are you so curious to see what else is out there? I have said that I am not going to sit here waiting for her while she sees what else is out there, and then come back to her when she actually realizes I'm the one for her. I just have to convince her. And if she can't see that, then maybe she isn't the one for me. Right?
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Penalized For Being Her First Love?
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
OneEyedJack
Don Juan
It is girl code for I'm breaking up with you, but I don't want to hurt you (a lot)
She wants out, and there is nothing you can do
She wants out, and there is nothing you can do
KontrollerX
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http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=126471&highlight=breaks
I give you joekerr's thread on breaks.
Read and learn well sosuave soldier.
I give you joekerr's thread on breaks.
Read and learn well sosuave soldier.
MacAvoy
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Excellent post by Joekerr and on the money. Whatever you do, don't try to convince her that she's making a mistake. The only way you can convince her she made a mistake is by agreeing to the break, then get out there and find some new plates to spin.
You've been lurking on this site long enough to have red enough threads to see guys try get back their ex's who fail. The only success guys see is from No Contact and moving on.
You've been lurking on this site long enough to have red enough threads to see guys try get back their ex's who fail. The only success guys see is from No Contact and moving on.
MooseGod
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Eh, she'll be back after she has a couple of kids with different guys.
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CORVETTE06
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let her go
penkitten
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there comes a time in everyone ones life (not just guys) that every person wants to spin more plates.
they want to make sure the china they end up with goes with the rest of the decor.
they want to make sure the china they end up with goes with the rest of the decor.