"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Pecs question.

Charisma

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Hi,

I got this question about the pecs
I have been working them out with basic exercises like pushups with weight on my butt to increase the stuff so after 8 I'm done. I do 4 sets of each time 8. I also lay on my back and 'push' UP heavy weight objects, so that works my pecks too.
And I do see an increase in mass by now. But I can't get the result I want. I want that line in between both pecs, that looks so cool lol. I have been reading up to see what muscles I have to target, but apparently I keep misreading stuff.

Any advice here ? I'm not fat either, I can barely grab any skin in that area of my body, so it's not like the fat is hiding that line. In fact all there is in that place is skin with bone directly under it ! How do you get that line there then ?

Thanks !
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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semag

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You're really gonna need to try to get a membership to a gym.

In order to get the kind of gains you're looking for, it's really really hard to do it purely with "homemade" gym ideas. You need a bench, some DB's, bars, and weights. Simple as that.
 

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I'll buy a bench then, no time to drive to the gym and back 3 times a week.

What bench would you advise me to buy ?
 

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an entire bench set requires a hell of a lot of cash, (esp. if you dont want a crappy one) but if youve got it than get the olympic barbell, the thick bar will do nicely.

in order to obtain a nice gain in the pectorial area. you need to attack your pecs from several different areas. weighted push ups will get you some gains but simply wont do the trick.

flat bench press- 4-6 sets x 6-8 reps (1 warm up set)
incline press- 3 sets x 6-8 reps
decline press- 2-3 sets x 4-6 reps


remeber when benching choose a weight that u can lift but not past 8 reps. when on your last rep you should be near failure.

(benching techniques vary w/ what you are trying to do i.e sports,cutting, bulking etc.)

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if youre wanting to get bigger you shoulod be doing 8-12 reps.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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The only way you can get "the line", is by increasing your over all chest mass. Now by increasing your chest mass, you'd have to increase your body weight which in turn would take a workout program, a diet program, dedication and perserverence (sp?).

It doesn't come overnight :)
 

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Wide pushups target the chest a little better. Close hand pushups target tricepts. But you're not going to make a lot of gains without a benchpress.
 

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i got a good bench from wal-mart for $90, it has a bunch of useless attachments too, very sturdy and modern looking also. you will need to buy some weights too; regular bar, two barbell bars, and 100lbs for about $30 at ****'s. wal-mart has extra weights for 50 cents a pound. Also you should do butterfly on the bench to increas chest.
 

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; regular bar, two barbell bars, and 100lbs
You're gonna need more than that... and only 2 bars at most. reg bar, and ez curl bar.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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