"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Pecs question.

Charisma

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Hi,

I got this question about the pecs
I have been working them out with basic exercises like pushups with weight on my butt to increase the stuff so after 8 I'm done. I do 4 sets of each time 8. I also lay on my back and 'push' UP heavy weight objects, so that works my pecks too.
And I do see an increase in mass by now. But I can't get the result I want. I want that line in between both pecs, that looks so cool lol. I have been reading up to see what muscles I have to target, but apparently I keep misreading stuff.

Any advice here ? I'm not fat either, I can barely grab any skin in that area of my body, so it's not like the fat is hiding that line. In fact all there is in that place is skin with bone directly under it ! How do you get that line there then ?

Thanks !
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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semag

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You're really gonna need to try to get a membership to a gym.

In order to get the kind of gains you're looking for, it's really really hard to do it purely with "homemade" gym ideas. You need a bench, some DB's, bars, and weights. Simple as that.
 

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I'll buy a bench then, no time to drive to the gym and back 3 times a week.

What bench would you advise me to buy ?
 

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an entire bench set requires a hell of a lot of cash, (esp. if you dont want a crappy one) but if youve got it than get the olympic barbell, the thick bar will do nicely.

in order to obtain a nice gain in the pectorial area. you need to attack your pecs from several different areas. weighted push ups will get you some gains but simply wont do the trick.

flat bench press- 4-6 sets x 6-8 reps (1 warm up set)
incline press- 3 sets x 6-8 reps
decline press- 2-3 sets x 4-6 reps


remeber when benching choose a weight that u can lift but not past 8 reps. when on your last rep you should be near failure.

(benching techniques vary w/ what you are trying to do i.e sports,cutting, bulking etc.)

one
 

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if youre wanting to get bigger you shoulod be doing 8-12 reps.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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The only way you can get "the line", is by increasing your over all chest mass. Now by increasing your chest mass, you'd have to increase your body weight which in turn would take a workout program, a diet program, dedication and perserverence (sp?).

It doesn't come overnight :)
 

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Wide pushups target the chest a little better. Close hand pushups target tricepts. But you're not going to make a lot of gains without a benchpress.
 

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i got a good bench from wal-mart for $90, it has a bunch of useless attachments too, very sturdy and modern looking also. you will need to buy some weights too; regular bar, two barbell bars, and 100lbs for about $30 at ****'s. wal-mart has extra weights for 50 cents a pound. Also you should do butterfly on the bench to increas chest.
 

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; regular bar, two barbell bars, and 100lbs
You're gonna need more than that... and only 2 bars at most. reg bar, and ez curl bar.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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