"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Peacocking

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I havent seen anything on peacocking yet. i dont know if many of you do it. i myself do. a good place i found was thrift stores. i first found this out when i went to one in vegas called the attic. also i might go to hot topic to find some crazy things, sunglasses, rings, clothes etc. for example, marilyn manson. the key here is to stick out. if he didnt do all that he would just be another rocker. i.e you might just be another guy wearing gap banana republic. now when i go to clubs or bars, it seems like everyone is preppy. but i try and do the wildest things i can think of. it works for me. i try and think of the things that are good conversaiton starters and most of the time ill be approached,( i like your glasses, or necklace, or rings, or watch's, or what ever) girls are curious like cats. now i got this whole thing from mystery, who might wear seven watch's, platform shoes, eye liner, black fingernail polish, and a cowboy hat. "when girls go out they play groupie, so when you go out you have to play rockstar." this was something i read in mystery's book. so any more tips or usefull things please post.

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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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WELL, Put:up:

I remember when everyone was trying to look good for a dance, they put button down shirts, polo, etc. Well, my friends and i put on some costumes (not a hallowin dance, in was in the summer). I was wearing a jailbreak outfit with a pink bilabong jacket. One was wearing this purple mesh shirt with purple pants, another a wierd ass shirt, another a wig and a trucker outfit, and the other........can't remember.

Good times
 

I'm Joe Dirt

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I have a shirt that is white with thick black stripes and very thin pink stripes. It looks really badass and grabs attention. I also have a very bright green/blue shirt that burns the retinas of all whose field of vision I enter. That definitley peacocks too. I notice people looking at me everywhere I go when I wear either one of those.

Since they're both button-up shirts I was thinking of adding a clip on tie (I have a few since they are part of the Geek Squad uniform) to them too, I might try it out some time.
 

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Yeah i think a clip on tie would be kinda dope. but only if people could tell its a clip on. then when they say is that a clip on just say "yup, regular ties are over rated" i would fall out laughing.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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