"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Peacocking

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I havent seen anything on peacocking yet. i dont know if many of you do it. i myself do. a good place i found was thrift stores. i first found this out when i went to one in vegas called the attic. also i might go to hot topic to find some crazy things, sunglasses, rings, clothes etc. for example, marilyn manson. the key here is to stick out. if he didnt do all that he would just be another rocker. i.e you might just be another guy wearing gap banana republic. now when i go to clubs or bars, it seems like everyone is preppy. but i try and do the wildest things i can think of. it works for me. i try and think of the things that are good conversaiton starters and most of the time ill be approached,( i like your glasses, or necklace, or rings, or watch's, or what ever) girls are curious like cats. now i got this whole thing from mystery, who might wear seven watch's, platform shoes, eye liner, black fingernail polish, and a cowboy hat. "when girls go out they play groupie, so when you go out you have to play rockstar." this was something i read in mystery's book. so any more tips or usefull things please post.

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“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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WELL, Put:up:

I remember when everyone was trying to look good for a dance, they put button down shirts, polo, etc. Well, my friends and i put on some costumes (not a hallowin dance, in was in the summer). I was wearing a jailbreak outfit with a pink bilabong jacket. One was wearing this purple mesh shirt with purple pants, another a wierd ass shirt, another a wig and a trucker outfit, and the other........can't remember.

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I'm Joe Dirt

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I have a shirt that is white with thick black stripes and very thin pink stripes. It looks really badass and grabs attention. I also have a very bright green/blue shirt that burns the retinas of all whose field of vision I enter. That definitley peacocks too. I notice people looking at me everywhere I go when I wear either one of those.

Since they're both button-up shirts I was thinking of adding a clip on tie (I have a few since they are part of the Geek Squad uniform) to them too, I might try it out some time.
 

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Yeah i think a clip on tie would be kinda dope. but only if people could tell its a clip on. then when they say is that a clip on just say "yup, regular ties are over rated" i would fall out laughing.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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