"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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BongDuy

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What do you guys wear that stands out? Im not a big fan of jewlery, but i have fallen for this one islander looking necklace that i've got from my sister years ago. It makes me look Hawaiian because of my tan and asian-ness.

What do you guys wear? I was actually thinking of getting a kinda (homo?) girly necklace that has a heart and peace sign in it. thoughts?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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saturos

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Uh you'd need to be quite the person to pull that necklace off. Thats not really peacocking. Its more like bold style, not necessarily strange, just unique.
I wear a necklace and a bracelet always, but it might not fit your personality. Its all about congruency as well.

I'd just recommend a really nice pair of shoes. And not like nike air jordans or something. Its all the rage right now but tbqh girls don't really give a **** about high tops and stuff if you're going for style.
 

Allurre

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Just DRESS sharp all around. Ironed tees, nice shorts, what you wear must represent who you are. Be consistent with what you wear, and don't be misinterpreted.

You can't be peacocking til you're 40.

But if this is something you resort to, just wear a funky watch -- Bathing Ape BAPEX, Flud Watches. Something along those lines.

Whatever women don't see on a regular will cut it.
 

kraytkiller

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Ha, pretty sure I'm peacocking, got a Marine BDU long sleve jacket that I almost constantly wear around outside (its great) with a few interesting patches on it.
 

Joe Stud

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sometimes I wear 2 gold chain bracelets on the same wrist. or... a chain & watch on my left wrist. for some reason I catch them looking at it.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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