"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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BongDuy

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What do you guys wear that stands out? Im not a big fan of jewlery, but i have fallen for this one islander looking necklace that i've got from my sister years ago. It makes me look Hawaiian because of my tan and asian-ness.

What do you guys wear? I was actually thinking of getting a kinda (homo?) girly necklace that has a heart and peace sign in it. thoughts?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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saturos

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Uh you'd need to be quite the person to pull that necklace off. Thats not really peacocking. Its more like bold style, not necessarily strange, just unique.
I wear a necklace and a bracelet always, but it might not fit your personality. Its all about congruency as well.

I'd just recommend a really nice pair of shoes. And not like nike air jordans or something. Its all the rage right now but tbqh girls don't really give a **** about high tops and stuff if you're going for style.
 

Allurre

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Just DRESS sharp all around. Ironed tees, nice shorts, what you wear must represent who you are. Be consistent with what you wear, and don't be misinterpreted.

You can't be peacocking til you're 40.

But if this is something you resort to, just wear a funky watch -- Bathing Ape BAPEX, Flud Watches. Something along those lines.

Whatever women don't see on a regular will cut it.
 

kraytkiller

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Ha, pretty sure I'm peacocking, got a Marine BDU long sleve jacket that I almost constantly wear around outside (its great) with a few interesting patches on it.
 

Joe Stud

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sometimes I wear 2 gold chain bracelets on the same wrist. or... a chain & watch on my left wrist. for some reason I catch them looking at it.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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