"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Peacocking Poppin'
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“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
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Too many guys do that, so by poppin your collar, you won't set yourself apart from the crowd, thus, it goes against what you were trying to do from the beginning.
Try concentrating on just dressing properly. Girls notice the very minor details.
I need to go me some polo shirts!I wouldn't call collar poping peacocking. You also might end up like this: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4JMOh-cul6M
'Yeah my collars popped, it's popped cos I'm the fcking man and everyone should know it'
"That guys collar is popped, he is so getting laid tonight"
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
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F'in classic!!!! Nice find, Jester!
SinJester said:lol DJVladdy I've seen that
I wouldn't call collar poping peacocking. You also might end up like this: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4JMOh-cul6M
'Yeah my collars popped, it's popped cos I'm the fcking man and everyone should know it'
"That guys collar is popped, he is so getting laid tonight"