"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Peacocking Poppin'
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
http://style.polo.com/askralph/graphics/askralph/110_sp04_ar_men_lg_07.jpg
Too many guys do that, so by poppin your collar, you won't set yourself apart from the crowd, thus, it goes against what you were trying to do from the beginning.
Try concentrating on just dressing properly. Girls notice the very minor details.
I need to go me some polo shirts!I wouldn't call collar poping peacocking. You also might end up like this: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4JMOh-cul6M
'Yeah my collars popped, it's popped cos I'm the fcking man and everyone should know it'
"That guys collar is popped, he is so getting laid tonight"
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
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F'in classic!!!! Nice find, Jester!
SinJester said:lol DJVladdy I've seen that
I wouldn't call collar poping peacocking. You also might end up like this: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4JMOh-cul6M
'Yeah my collars popped, it's popped cos I'm the fcking man and everyone should know it'
"That guys collar is popped, he is so getting laid tonight"