"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Peacocking for idiots 101

Egoist

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Ok here is the deal guys.

You need to understand what the difference between peacocking and being stylish is.

Unless you are a 7 foot tall magician or a chubby dwarf, chances are peacocking as mystery sees it is NOT going to work for you.

So forget the blinky shirts, feather boas, yellow goggles, black nails, and all that bull**** freak stuff.

The kind of peacocking that most of the guys on this board would benefit from is being stylish and pulling it off well.

And it's simple too. Dress well. Dress unique. Add personal touches. Add strong inner game. Pull *****es like crazy.

Basically you have to be stylish (think GQ, or rockstar look, or whatever) but also make it uniquely you, and make it congruent with your inner game/personality. Easier said than done? sure, but once you get it together, it works like a charm.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Smooth Player 056

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This advice is good for the day, but if you going to hit up clubs and you are extroverted and have the alpha mentality....."freak" peakocking works wonders.

When I say "alpha" mentality I mean it, Ive seen guys pulling this freak peacoking out who are so introverted, that they get steped on by AMOG's and chastized publicly.

I agree, you must always be congruent, no matter what your style may be.

Love,
Smooth
 

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i hit up clubs, i am extroverted, and i have the alpha mentality.

but my style of peacocking is hot stylish ****, not the cheap vinyl bull****.

When I am clubbing, i basically dress like a rockstar. Not a cheap immitation one, but a real one. Like instead of $10 goggles, I wear nice sunglasses that are more appropriate and get more positive attention from HBs. Hell, tons of random people at clubs tell me how they love my style.

Honestly, freak peacocking will get some girls talking to you, but looking really good and unique will get you even further.



Oh and we love you too man. :crackup:
 

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Thanks for the love man.

Anywayz....wheather I wear 2 dollar flight goggles, or 2000 dollar gucci sunglasses....it doesnt effect the way I am treated by other people.....or my internal state.


Love,
Smooth
 
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