Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Peacocking for idiots 101

Egoist

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Ok here is the deal guys.

You need to understand what the difference between peacocking and being stylish is.

Unless you are a 7 foot tall magician or a chubby dwarf, chances are peacocking as mystery sees it is NOT going to work for you.

So forget the blinky shirts, feather boas, yellow goggles, black nails, and all that bull**** freak stuff.

The kind of peacocking that most of the guys on this board would benefit from is being stylish and pulling it off well.

And it's simple too. Dress well. Dress unique. Add personal touches. Add strong inner game. Pull *****es like crazy.

Basically you have to be stylish (think GQ, or rockstar look, or whatever) but also make it uniquely you, and make it congruent with your inner game/personality. Easier said than done? sure, but once you get it together, it works like a charm.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Smooth Player 056

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This advice is good for the day, but if you going to hit up clubs and you are extroverted and have the alpha mentality....."freak" peakocking works wonders.

When I say "alpha" mentality I mean it, Ive seen guys pulling this freak peacoking out who are so introverted, that they get steped on by AMOG's and chastized publicly.

I agree, you must always be congruent, no matter what your style may be.

Love,
Smooth
 

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i hit up clubs, i am extroverted, and i have the alpha mentality.

but my style of peacocking is hot stylish ****, not the cheap vinyl bull****.

When I am clubbing, i basically dress like a rockstar. Not a cheap immitation one, but a real one. Like instead of $10 goggles, I wear nice sunglasses that are more appropriate and get more positive attention from HBs. Hell, tons of random people at clubs tell me how they love my style.

Honestly, freak peacocking will get some girls talking to you, but looking really good and unique will get you even further.



Oh and we love you too man. :crackup:
 

Smooth Player 056

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Thanks for the love man.

Anywayz....wheather I wear 2 dollar flight goggles, or 2000 dollar gucci sunglasses....it doesnt effect the way I am treated by other people.....or my internal state.


Love,
Smooth
 
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