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You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

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Paypal question

ChocolateVanilla

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Hey everyone,

If I make a payment with Paypal using credit card, is the payment made out to paypal when I get my credit card bill or the site I bought the product from (i.e. ebay)?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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chevelle

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Yes, my american express bill always states all paypal transactions.

Another question though:

If you sell things via ebay and you use an american express card for your paypal account, how do you get your cash once you sell the item? I don't want my credit card credited, especially if i make several hundred dollars per month.

Can someone explain?
 

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On your bank account it will show as PAYPAL INST XFER XXXXXXXXXX.. You can see exactly what that XXXXX number is in transaction details on your PayPal account..

On credit card its smilar.. It will say PAYPAL then a shortened name of seller..

PayPal's credit card name is Mark PayPal if you ever get to recover your money from them. It's smart that you're using credit card through PayPal, you have another line of defense against fraud or other things, credit card company is always on your side. Just make sure it's American Express.



If they pay via PayPal to you, you transfer that ballance to your bank account.. I don't wait until the end of month, I receive a payment, I initiate transfer.. Buyer can cancel the payment even after you ship the item and you have to go through dispute to get your money, so always transfer.. I don't deal with PayPal when selling because of this, unless buyer requests it.. Another reason I don't deal with PayPal is because I can't select which payments to accept, if they pay me with credit card, I have to deal with chargebacks.. Though, PayPal supposedly makes buyers buy more, or whatever.. I use my charm to make them buy more..
 

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I use Visa and not American Express, I'm just wondering what the credit card bill will say when I buy something from random websites like ebay. Can you guys give me an example?
 

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chevelle said:
If you sell things via ebay and you use an american express card for your paypal account, how do you get your cash once you sell the item?
I have a Paypal debit card, which is GREAT. Its like a bank debit card, and you can access your money instantly from any ATM, or just use it like a credit card. Nothing like thinking you are broke, then finding out your nifty blue card suddenly has $300 on it.
 

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You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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