"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Paypal question

ChocolateVanilla

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Hey everyone,

If I make a payment with Paypal using credit card, is the payment made out to paypal when I get my credit card bill or the site I bought the product from (i.e. ebay)?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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chevelle

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Yes, my american express bill always states all paypal transactions.

Another question though:

If you sell things via ebay and you use an american express card for your paypal account, how do you get your cash once you sell the item? I don't want my credit card credited, especially if i make several hundred dollars per month.

Can someone explain?
 

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On your bank account it will show as PAYPAL INST XFER XXXXXXXXXX.. You can see exactly what that XXXXX number is in transaction details on your PayPal account..

On credit card its smilar.. It will say PAYPAL then a shortened name of seller..

PayPal's credit card name is Mark PayPal if you ever get to recover your money from them. It's smart that you're using credit card through PayPal, you have another line of defense against fraud or other things, credit card company is always on your side. Just make sure it's American Express.



If they pay via PayPal to you, you transfer that ballance to your bank account.. I don't wait until the end of month, I receive a payment, I initiate transfer.. Buyer can cancel the payment even after you ship the item and you have to go through dispute to get your money, so always transfer.. I don't deal with PayPal when selling because of this, unless buyer requests it.. Another reason I don't deal with PayPal is because I can't select which payments to accept, if they pay me with credit card, I have to deal with chargebacks.. Though, PayPal supposedly makes buyers buy more, or whatever.. I use my charm to make them buy more..
 

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I use Visa and not American Express, I'm just wondering what the credit card bill will say when I buy something from random websites like ebay. Can you guys give me an example?
 

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chevelle said:
If you sell things via ebay and you use an american express card for your paypal account, how do you get your cash once you sell the item?
I have a Paypal debit card, which is GREAT. Its like a bank debit card, and you can access your money instantly from any ATM, or just use it like a credit card. Nothing like thinking you are broke, then finding out your nifty blue card suddenly has $300 on it.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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