“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Crissco

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I know the rule of thumb around here is that the girls pay most of the time, does that count with dinner also? Or do you guys usually split the bill? Cuz a friend of mine got me thinking. I said they girl usually pays, the he said I wear the pants, I pay. The we were talking about if she instincts on paying then you pay or even more in..? Whats everyone's thought on that?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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DJ Miquelo

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If you ask a girl to dinner then I'd say you should pay for it since it was your idea and indeed you 'wear the pants' as it were.

I took my gf to dinner a few weeks ago and paid it. Normally id say just split the bill if uve been seeing her for a while (as i have been) but in my scenario, it was my idea plus she was low on money anyway so i thought... why not!

But yeah, pay if its ur idea and ur near the start of the relationship, otherwise, split the bill!
 
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