"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Paying in general

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Crissco

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I know the rule of thumb around here is that the girls pay most of the time, does that count with dinner also? Or do you guys usually split the bill? Cuz a friend of mine got me thinking. I said they girl usually pays, the he said I wear the pants, I pay. The we were talking about if she instincts on paying then you pay or even more in..? Whats everyone's thought on that?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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If you ask a girl to dinner then I'd say you should pay for it since it was your idea and indeed you 'wear the pants' as it were.

I took my gf to dinner a few weeks ago and paid it. Normally id say just split the bill if uve been seeing her for a while (as i have been) but in my scenario, it was my idea plus she was low on money anyway so i thought... why not!

But yeah, pay if its ur idea and ur near the start of the relationship, otherwise, split the bill!
 
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