Atom Smasher
Master Don Juan
"Although I could, I don't think it would be appropriate for me to pay for a sitter. If you think about it and see my point, feel free to get in touch."
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Paying For The Babysitter On The First Date
- Thread starter Robert_F
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Maximus Rex
Banned
Question, (and I'm dead ass serious when I ask this,) why can't her baby daddy watch the kids? Or at a minimum, either set of grandparents?
Robert_F
Don Juan
Gawd, I absolutely hate the term "Baby Daddy" or "Baby Mama", but that's beside the point.
I couldn't answer this honestly. Maybe she, like so many single mothers out there, aren't sure who the father of the child is.
I was introduced to a young single lady, (22 years of age) by her brother. This young lady was about 8 months pregnant and already had two other children. I guess she thought she was being "cute" when she said, "Well, I think I know who the father of this one really is."
She may have been thinking "cute" but I was thinking "tramp".
Drop this mindset of "dating".
How can you create an opportunity for her to have the pleasure of sucking your c0ck and fun
to take place is a better situation....
You see, her request is really a request to step into her reality....
You don't want that.
You want her to step into your reality. Say it "woman, you are a guest in my reality"
and then you decide what's appropriate for you in this situation....
but it must be your idea...
this request of hers would make me laugh......
sometimes you have to laugh at them....you have to FRAME their behavior for what
it is......SILLY AND IRRELEVANT.........and then you can invite her back into reality....
..YOUR REALITY......
"nah, let's watch a movie at yours. I'll bring the wine"
all she's worth is a bang. She's not worth a "date"
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
EyeBRollin
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Women don't stop being women when they have kids. Treat all women the same.
They become worse... You now have to be the "father" and provide for the kids under all circumstances even if they are not yours, case in point "pay for the babysitter". Also, single moms tend to be looking more for men as providers more than anything else. They are less willing to compromise and sacrifice for the other person and will frequently use their kids as an excuse.
EyeBRollin
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No you don't. People only do to them what you let them.
No, that is a myth. Single mom's are women. Women all want the same ****. Women with children I've found tend to have their **** together more than women without kids. Compromise is based on you, the male. Men lead the negotiation. Any woman that doesn't meet your standards gets kicked to the curb. Don't accept what you don't find acceptable. That goes for all your personal interactions.
Desdinova
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The reality is, she wouldn't need a babysitter if she had stayed with the guy who fathered the child. If she couldn't make it work with the father, then the child is her financial responsibility. That is the price she has to pay for either fvcking the wrong guy, or putting no effort into making the relationship work with the father.