Atom Smasher
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"Although I could, I don't think it would be appropriate for me to pay for a sitter. If you think about it and see my point, feel free to get in touch."
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Paying For The Babysitter On The First Date
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What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
Maximus Rex
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Question, (and I'm dead ass serious when I ask this,) why can't her baby daddy watch the kids? Or at a minimum, either set of grandparents?
Robert_F
Don Juan
Gawd, I absolutely hate the term "Baby Daddy" or "Baby Mama", but that's beside the point.
I couldn't answer this honestly. Maybe she, like so many single mothers out there, aren't sure who the father of the child is.
I was introduced to a young single lady, (22 years of age) by her brother. This young lady was about 8 months pregnant and already had two other children. I guess she thought she was being "cute" when she said, "Well, I think I know who the father of this one really is."
She may have been thinking "cute" but I was thinking "tramp".
Drop this mindset of "dating".
How can you create an opportunity for her to have the pleasure of sucking your c0ck and fun
to take place is a better situation....
You see, her request is really a request to step into her reality....
You don't want that.
You want her to step into your reality. Say it "woman, you are a guest in my reality"
and then you decide what's appropriate for you in this situation....
but it must be your idea...
this request of hers would make me laugh......
sometimes you have to laugh at them....you have to FRAME their behavior for what
it is......SILLY AND IRRELEVANT.........and then you can invite her back into reality....
..YOUR REALITY......
"nah, let's watch a movie at yours. I'll bring the wine"
all she's worth is a bang. She's not worth a "date"
EyeBRollin
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Women don't stop being women when they have kids. Treat all women the same.
They become worse... You now have to be the "father" and provide for the kids under all circumstances even if they are not yours, case in point "pay for the babysitter". Also, single moms tend to be looking more for men as providers more than anything else. They are less willing to compromise and sacrifice for the other person and will frequently use their kids as an excuse.
EyeBRollin
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No you don't. People only do to them what you let them.
No, that is a myth. Single mom's are women. Women all want the same ****. Women with children I've found tend to have their **** together more than women without kids. Compromise is based on you, the male. Men lead the negotiation. Any woman that doesn't meet your standards gets kicked to the curb. Don't accept what you don't find acceptable. That goes for all your personal interactions.
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The reality is, she wouldn't need a babysitter if she had stayed with the guy who fathered the child. If she couldn't make it work with the father, then the child is her financial responsibility. That is the price she has to pay for either fvcking the wrong guy, or putting no effort into making the relationship work with the father.