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Ok so I am now taking my ex girlfriend to prom, shes a sophmore and im a senior and Iwanted to get you thoughts on wheather should get her ticket/limo or make her pay for it.
 

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Definitely buy her ticket, if you have enough money for the limo, go for it. If not, mention it ahead of time so she can get some money to pitch in.
 

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if you want a relationship with her, then make it 50/50 or at least make her to pay for something because if you pay all for something expensive like limo, then she will treat you like a money bag.
 

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Zerotwoonenine said:
if you want a relationship with her, then make it 50/50 or at least make her to pay for something because if you pay all for something expensive like limo, then she will treat you like a money bag.
Guys buy the girls tickets. It's not "AFC" or "Non-DJ", it's tradition. I highly doubt your date paid for her own ticket, Zero. If so, then she was very desperate.
 

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well i paid for the limo and ticket and hotel but i made my date buy the liqur
 

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here's what i did:

i paid for prom tickets

she volunteered to pay for the pictures

as for the flower thingy (corsage and boutierre or something)...how does that work?

do i buy her's and she buys mine?
someone tell me
 

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yea you usually buy hers and she buys yours
 

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frisco said:
well i paid for the limo and ticket and hotel but i made my date buy the liqur

Sounds fair to me.

If I was a 'prom kind of guy' I'd pay for the ticket, chip in 50/50 on the limo, maybe suprise the broad with something (cheap, but classy/creative of course)...
 

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u pay for the ticket...our tickets are insanely priced- $225

she pays for pictures and corsage(i think they come in a set)
 

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Prom tickets here were like...14 bucks. 225 for yours? hell.
 
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