high_roller77
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Ok so I am now taking my ex girlfriend to prom, shes a sophmore and im a senior and Iwanted to get you thoughts on wheather should get her ticket/limo or make her pay for it.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
paying for prom?
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Skilla_Staz
Master Don Juan
Definitely buy her ticket, if you have enough money for the limo, go for it. If not, mention it ahead of time so she can get some money to pitch in.
Zerotwoonenine
Senior Don Juan
if you want a relationship with her, then make it 50/50 or at least make her to pay for something because if you pay all for something expensive like limo, then she will treat you like a money bag.
Guys buy the girls tickets. It's not "AFC" or "Non-DJ", it's tradition. I highly doubt your date paid for her own ticket, Zero. If so, then she was very desperate.Zerotwoonenine said:if you want a relationship with her, then make it 50/50 or at least make her to pay for something because if you pay all for something expensive like limo, then she will treat you like a money bag.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
here's what i did:
i paid for prom tickets
she volunteered to pay for the pictures
as for the flower thingy (corsage and boutierre or something)...how does that work?
do i buy her's and she buys mine?
someone tell me
i paid for prom tickets
she volunteered to pay for the pictures
as for the flower thingy (corsage and boutierre or something)...how does that work?
do i buy her's and she buys mine?
someone tell me
Skilla_Staz
Master Don Juan
frisco said:well i paid for the limo and ticket and hotel but i made my date buy the liqur
Sounds fair to me.
If I was a 'prom kind of guy' I'd pay for the ticket, chip in 50/50 on the limo, maybe suprise the broad with something (cheap, but classy/creative of course)...
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Skilla_Staz
Master Don Juan
Prom tickets here were like...14 bucks. 225 for yours? hell.