"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Paying for it - the risks

Gwyndaf Jones

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I would appreciate your views regarding the
following:
A few weeks ago I visited a Brothel while on holiday
in Germany (more than once).
Contraception was used every time.
However, once, after a few minutes of intercourse, she
stopped, withdrew the condom (using her bare hands ) ,
and she masturbated me to
climax . Can anything be transmitted in this manner?


Also, How safe is it to touch a partners genitals, then touch my own without washing hands in between?
What if any STD's can be transmitted in this way?

You'r views regarding this would be most
welcome.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Thraxeh

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dont quote me on this, but i heard that there are many STD's that die when exposed to air, so if u touch an infected part, and u get STD's on ur fingers and then touch something else, its fine. i think
 

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Very doubtful, dont sweat it mate.

If you're quite worried, see the doctor and get it all checked out.

'dont quote me on this, but i heard that there are many STD's that die when exposed to air, so if u touch an infected part, and u get STD's on ur fingers and then touch something else, its fine. i think'

I'm not sure, but I dont think that includes things like aids which can be caught through the blood - otherwise you probably wouldnt get it.
 

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Regulated brothels follow very stringent health and safety guidelines, including but not limited to monthly STD blood testing of all licensed employees. If an audit is performed on a brothel and it is found to be employing girls without health permits, the brothel is subsequently shut down. In 99.99% of the cases, it's sound business practice to just comply with the regulations - they are in place for all parties safety. It could actually be argued that it's safer to have sex in a brothel (regulated) than with the girl you met just a few hours/days ago.

I'm posting this because I see that the STD question has already been answered, and hope that this might put your mind at ease.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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