"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Paying for it - the risks

Gwyndaf Jones

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I would appreciate your views regarding the
following:
A few weeks ago I visited a Brothel while on holiday
in Germany (more than once).
Contraception was used every time.
However, once, after a few minutes of intercourse, she
stopped, withdrew the condom (using her bare hands ) ,
and she masturbated me to
climax . Can anything be transmitted in this manner?


Also, How safe is it to touch a partners genitals, then touch my own without washing hands in between?
What if any STD's can be transmitted in this way?

You'r views regarding this would be most
welcome.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Thraxeh

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dont quote me on this, but i heard that there are many STD's that die when exposed to air, so if u touch an infected part, and u get STD's on ur fingers and then touch something else, its fine. i think
 

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Very doubtful, dont sweat it mate.

If you're quite worried, see the doctor and get it all checked out.

'dont quote me on this, but i heard that there are many STD's that die when exposed to air, so if u touch an infected part, and u get STD's on ur fingers and then touch something else, its fine. i think'

I'm not sure, but I dont think that includes things like aids which can be caught through the blood - otherwise you probably wouldnt get it.
 

diablo

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Regulated brothels follow very stringent health and safety guidelines, including but not limited to monthly STD blood testing of all licensed employees. If an audit is performed on a brothel and it is found to be employing girls without health permits, the brothel is subsequently shut down. In 99.99% of the cases, it's sound business practice to just comply with the regulations - they are in place for all parties safety. It could actually be argued that it's safer to have sex in a brothel (regulated) than with the girl you met just a few hours/days ago.

I'm posting this because I see that the STD question has already been answered, and hope that this might put your mind at ease.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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