"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Pay the bill?
- Thread starter ChesterB
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Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
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Shadow Dancer
Senior Don Juan
Other times I'll pay for it and say, "I'll get it this time, you can get it next time.".
Simple x 2.
Whatever you do, as long as you KNOW you're not trying to impress her, you'll be fine whether you pay or not. If you really KNOW you're not trying to impress her, she'll know it too.
If it's a basic "meet and greet" kind of thing (i.e. a pre-date), then we pay for our own stuff.
Leon Phelps
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“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
Starman
Master Don Juan
MOST AFC's have a certain type of personality where during the date, they do EVERYTHING wrong
They dont qualify the chick
They are too worried about making an impression
They are too scared to be c/f
They supplicate
They pay for bills and take girls shopping
Now, paying for the BILL isnt going to make you AFC in her eyes..but if you have all the above makings of AFCness, paying the bill only confirms her suspicions of you trying to impress her
Now if on a date, you have been c/f, teased her, qualifyed her, neg hit her, etc
Paying the bill will only make you look like a gentleman ( dont buy this entire crap that paying for a bill will make or break your game)
Its usually the AFC persona coupled with paying the bill that is your deathcall
The only reason I split 50/50, is because I want to avoid "professional daters"
women who go out for free meals and drinks, and to brag to their friends
Its hard to spot which girl is nice or using you
so I just Split 50/50 to be safe
I have had dates were the chick IMMEDIATELY paid for the entire bill, in that scenario, on a 2nd , 3rd date I would BUY her next meal
WaterTiger
Master Don Juan
( . )( . )
Banned
why the phuck would you pay for her? does she deserve YOUR money somehow for going out with you?Originally posted by ChesterB
On a date, esp. the first date, would you pay the bill for you both, split it or even ask her to pay it?
Consider a coffee date.
straight down the middle, everytime 50/50 OR il get this one you get the next.
did i mention NEVER PAY FOR HER?
and get busy reading this then read it again until there is ABSOLUTELY no doubt in your mind.
( . )( . )
Banned
bullsh!t , you and gigalo couldnt be further from the truth, she accepted to go out with you, you didnt make her, you actually sound like you should feel obliged to pay because she may have had "something" better to do than be in the presence of an actual man, ....................pay for her time?Originally posted by Mr. Latte
I'm all for the tried and true method...the person who asks pays.
i say, yeah maybe when hell freezes over.
“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
tiburon
Banned
( . )( . ) dude i dont know were you get your insights men but i take mi hat off to you....
I dont remeber the last time i payed for my first date ....probably in middle schooll...Why? for excactly what ( . )( . ) said.
Paying for a first date has two things to it...first is an easy way to start wrong from the beginning ..second it can be a good test if on a first date because if the woman doesnt even fight you to go 50 - 50 ..**** NEXT THAT BYTCH!!!
tiburon
Banned
ITS KIND OF DISSAPOINTING TO SEE MOST MEMBERS WOULD PAY
THE WHOLE BILL...........READ THE ARTICLE ( . )(. ) suggested.....!!!!!!
Chemistry
Master Don Juan
Works out as the best of both worlds... no little nervous wait to see if she's gonna dip into her purse, no workin out who owes what on the bill... you take control of the situation, show that you could quite easily catch the bill yourself, but then don't have the same financial burden as if you'd caught it yourself...
If you're talkin Starbucks or some kinda joint like that, then she's more than capable of buyin her **** straight up...