Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
A warning from you should tell them more than enough.Agent Zero said:
Still looking for you to post your personal words of wisdom that will enlighten us all...
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Pay for dinner, noobs
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Still looking for you to post your personal words of wisdom that will enlighten us all...
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
No need to argue that point to a guy who believe that a guy who's married is necessarily a step above a guy who's not. He probably also believe that a guy has to have at least a six figure salary to land a woman. He's been reading too many romance novels.Snow Plowman said:...Age doesn't mean sh!t
Marraige comes down to the person, whether thats for them or not. Honestly marraige isn't for me and marraige wouldn't fit well in my lifestyle so...I'll be 39 and unmarried.
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Original poster - you are missing the point in your own advice
you are to not take a girl to dinner until you had sex.
A dinner first date will not work more often than not, because the best possible first dates are the ones with the most isolation, aka watching a movie at her/your place, having a few drinks together, and escalating things to sex..........and then you can go to dinner
except
because you are going to give her mind blowing sex, you are going to say "hey baby can u get me this time? i'm a lil low on money" - and then SHE pays for YOU
you are to not take a girl to dinner until you had sex.
A dinner first date will not work more often than not, because the best possible first dates are the ones with the most isolation, aka watching a movie at her/your place, having a few drinks together, and escalating things to sex..........and then you can go to dinner
except
because you are going to give her mind blowing sex, you are going to say "hey baby can u get me this time? i'm a lil low on money" - and then SHE pays for YOU
Interceptor
Master Don Juan
The "dinner" date shoudl be saved for a woman who Qualified for you.
End of freakin'; story.
Action dates or just Meeting Up is the way to go when you first meet her.
If she's interested, she will still like it.
She wants to see YOU. Not food, or some dumb movie. How is she going to get excited about you?
Do things together. Do somethign out of the ordinairy.
The dinner and a movie is so boring women will vomit if they hear somethign like that as a first date from a guy they are (were) interested in.
Don't do this sh*t anymore.
Save it for the girl whom you KNOW is LTR material.
No flowers, No candy, No Cards,
None of that sh*t for some girl you just met!!!
Do not qualify a girl just because she showed up! Or she's "hawt."
Fck that.
No "Thanks for coming!"
Don't be overly grateful to some chick because she decided not to stay home and watch TV.
She will think this is low value behavior.
"Why is he so grateful?"
"He must not go on too many dates."
"Maybe this guy really IS a chump."
"Maybe I made a mistake."
If other women don't want you, why should she?
IF you act in the typical AFC behavior, guess what?
This makes her think you don't know sh*t about women, and you must not have any experience with women.
Bad signs.
Avoid this behavior.
Here's something I just thought of, which helps me reason out proper behavior.
Put yourself in the plac that a woman you just met, bought you flowers, and candy, and cards, and bowed down to your every need, told you how much she "loved" you after the first date, was overly self deprecating, was very needy, and jealous, and suffocated you with her 24hour surveillance/attention?
How would you feel?
You'd next her. You'd say "That b1tch is crazy!! I'm outta here!"
Now take that and chew on it a while.
End of freakin'; story.
Action dates or just Meeting Up is the way to go when you first meet her.
If she's interested, she will still like it.
She wants to see YOU. Not food, or some dumb movie. How is she going to get excited about you?
Do things together. Do somethign out of the ordinairy.
The dinner and a movie is so boring women will vomit if they hear somethign like that as a first date from a guy they are (were) interested in.
Don't do this sh*t anymore.
Save it for the girl whom you KNOW is LTR material.
No flowers, No candy, No Cards,
None of that sh*t for some girl you just met!!!
Do not qualify a girl just because she showed up! Or she's "hawt."
Fck that.
No "Thanks for coming!"
Don't be overly grateful to some chick because she decided not to stay home and watch TV.
She will think this is low value behavior.
"Why is he so grateful?"
"He must not go on too many dates."
"Maybe this guy really IS a chump."
"Maybe I made a mistake."
If other women don't want you, why should she?
IF you act in the typical AFC behavior, guess what?
This makes her think you don't know sh*t about women, and you must not have any experience with women.
Bad signs.
Avoid this behavior.
Here's something I just thought of, which helps me reason out proper behavior.
Put yourself in the plac that a woman you just met, bought you flowers, and candy, and cards, and bowed down to your every need, told you how much she "loved" you after the first date, was overly self deprecating, was very needy, and jealous, and suffocated you with her 24hour surveillance/attention?
How would you feel?
You'd next her. You'd say "That b1tch is crazy!! I'm outta here!"
Now take that and chew on it a while.
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you just summed up my thoughts in a nice mature way there buddy lolInterceptor said:The "dinner" date shoudl be saved for a woman who Qualified for you.
End of freakin'; story.
Action dates or just Meeting Up is the way to go when you first meet her.
If she's interested, she will still like it.
She wants to see YOU. Not food, or some dumb movie. How is she going to get excited about you?
Do things together. Do somethign out of the ordinairy.
The dinner and a movie is so boring women will vomit if they hear somethign like that as a first date from a guy they are (were) interested in.
Don't do this sh*t anymore.
Save it for the girl whom you KNOW is LTR material.
No flowers, No candy, No Cards,
None of that sh*t for some girl you just met!!!
Do not qualify a girl just because she showed up! Or she's "hawt."
Fck that.
No "Thanks for coming!"
Don't be overly grateful to some chick because she decided not to stay home and watch TV.
She will think this is low value behavior.
"Why is he so grateful?"
"He must not go on too many dates."
"Maybe this guy really IS a chump."
"Maybe I made a mistake."
If other women don't want you, why should she?
IF you act in the typical AFC behavior, guess what?
This makes her think you don't know sh*t about women, and you must not have any experience with women.
Bad signs.
Avoid this behavior.
“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
I'm telling you guys, this type of reality is beyond the understanding (or maybe the ability) of a lot of guys...Interceptor said:...Now take that and chew on it a while.