"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Pawning your afc friends

Pistol

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It's a Friday night and you feel like hitting the bars and the only other person who wants to go is your shy afc friend who has no pickup experience. Happenned to me recently and i figured out a simple way to use your afc friend to get the girl you want.

First you tell your friend that you are going to go talk to some friends and ask him to get you a table. Then you spot a two set (this only really works with a two set, sorry) on the otherside of the room you approach and open to the two set trying to build a rapport with the girl who is not your target.

Then it comes time to pull the switch, after you've built your rapport with the less attractive one you ask her if she'll go dance with your shy friend over at the other table because he has problems approaching women. You are now left on your own with your original target and you have already negged her by ignoring her and demonstrated value. Your friend will love you for it later too cause you convinced a girl to dance with him (unless she's a total ugo which is unfortunate for him but a sacrifice you're willing to make).

I've done this routine to perfection a couple times now and have been damned pleased with the result.

sincerely, Pistol
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Heart Break Kid

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Not a band idea, I can see it working but I'd never do that to my friends. Even if some of them are AFC's, they're still my friends. And out of curiosity what is "pawn"? I've heard some gamers use "pwn" and "ownd" which is basically the same thing, but never heard that one before.

Best regards.
 

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What I mean by pawn is you are switching yourself for your friend. I get what your saying about not screwwing your friends over which is why I've only done this with sets where the girls are both at least 7 or 8s
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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flippinfreak

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lol, I don't think it's BAD at all...

I've opened single sets, and used my AFC friend(that I wanted to ditch), as a suicide piece. I opened the girl, than I asked my friend to sit down. I acted all interested in their lives, asking my friend a question, than her, and back and forth so they were ALWAYS looking at eachother. I had positioned myself strategically against the wall... "hey man, can you go get me a drink?" He gets up, and I say to her, "hey, he wants to go dance with you, you should be his new friend tonight"

Needless to say, she knew what I was talking about. My friend got her msn that night though, so me and him fell through, she keeps going to back to talk of him, saying he's so annoying, because he keeps using my name in vain to try and show how big of an AMOG he is:D

I love teasing overly c0cky guys...

That is why I think hooking your friend up is NOT a bad way to play at all. If you approached the HB9 and kept the 8 for yourself, and waited for fate to hook you up with the 8's friends I'd give you even bigger props.
 
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