"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Pawning your afc friends

Pistol

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It's a Friday night and you feel like hitting the bars and the only other person who wants to go is your shy afc friend who has no pickup experience. Happenned to me recently and i figured out a simple way to use your afc friend to get the girl you want.

First you tell your friend that you are going to go talk to some friends and ask him to get you a table. Then you spot a two set (this only really works with a two set, sorry) on the otherside of the room you approach and open to the two set trying to build a rapport with the girl who is not your target.

Then it comes time to pull the switch, after you've built your rapport with the less attractive one you ask her if she'll go dance with your shy friend over at the other table because he has problems approaching women. You are now left on your own with your original target and you have already negged her by ignoring her and demonstrated value. Your friend will love you for it later too cause you convinced a girl to dance with him (unless she's a total ugo which is unfortunate for him but a sacrifice you're willing to make).

I've done this routine to perfection a couple times now and have been damned pleased with the result.

sincerely, Pistol
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Heart Break Kid

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Not a band idea, I can see it working but I'd never do that to my friends. Even if some of them are AFC's, they're still my friends. And out of curiosity what is "pawn"? I've heard some gamers use "pwn" and "ownd" which is basically the same thing, but never heard that one before.

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What I mean by pawn is you are switching yourself for your friend. I get what your saying about not screwwing your friends over which is why I've only done this with sets where the girls are both at least 7 or 8s
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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flippinfreak

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lol, I don't think it's BAD at all...

I've opened single sets, and used my AFC friend(that I wanted to ditch), as a suicide piece. I opened the girl, than I asked my friend to sit down. I acted all interested in their lives, asking my friend a question, than her, and back and forth so they were ALWAYS looking at eachother. I had positioned myself strategically against the wall... "hey man, can you go get me a drink?" He gets up, and I say to her, "hey, he wants to go dance with you, you should be his new friend tonight"

Needless to say, she knew what I was talking about. My friend got her msn that night though, so me and him fell through, she keeps going to back to talk of him, saying he's so annoying, because he keeps using my name in vain to try and show how big of an AMOG he is:D

I love teasing overly c0cky guys...

That is why I think hooking your friend up is NOT a bad way to play at all. If you approached the HB9 and kept the 8 for yourself, and waited for fate to hook you up with the 8's friends I'd give you even bigger props.
 
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