"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Pavement Chicken

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Jariel

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Warboss Alex said:
What I think, is that when a culture where men are polite, respectful and gentlemanly is considered 'AFC' then it's a sorry world indeed.

You guys want to conquer women left and right, but if you don't first show YOURSELVES enough self-respect to be men then you've got it all wrong. Being a man is about having dignity, self-respect, balls yes - that includes respecting others - but if that's at the price of good manners and basic human decency count me out.

None of you will become men until you realise that being a man isn't just about how badly you treat your woman so she'll be attracted to your 'jerkiness'.

All my life I've opened doors for women, let them go first where applicable, done all the 'chivalric' stuff and you know what, I bet I've had more girls than 90% of you guys on here. Some might argue "I've got the looks/muscles" - well fine, that's just a bonus. If you're scrawny and ugly, you might as well be polite and have SOMETHING going for you.

Oh, and you can be polite/charming AND be a devilish, seductive rogue as well. you CAN have both.

Now if you'll excuse me, it's time to eat.
:up:

I made an interesting observation of my own: that this attitude is common among guys who have nothing to prove.
 

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hi there
i want to impress a married women.. how can it possible.. i want tricks..
please do tell. thanks.
 

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Nighthawk said:
Yes, this is what I think now.

Nice to have you back.
Thanks mate! I leave this place for a short while and I get complacent, so I'm back for a little motivation.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Next time you should do the "I'm Going Right...No... I'm going left...No...Etc"

And see how long you can keep them in front of you.

Than you can come up with something to mess with them about..

Like "If you wanted to dance, you could have just asked"
 
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